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887 || dealing with intentional incompetence
Weaponized incompetence refers to the deliberate use of ignorance, incompetence, or lack of skill in a relationship as a manipulative tactic to avoid…
2 years, 11 months ago
886 || discussing emotional labor finale
balancing the gap between partners can be tricky because it's not going to be a 50/50, simple, black and white split down the center. there may be ti…
2 years, 11 months ago
885 || how to talk about it
balancing the gap between partners can be tricky because it's not going to be a 50/50, simple, black and white split down the center. there may be ti…
2 years, 11 months ago
884 || fair play method
fair play method by eve rodsky is a badass way to approach the imbalance of cognitive labor that needs to keep a household running. It may be hard to…
2 years, 11 months ago
883 || balancing the worry gap || patreon
there may be times when one partner is picking up more slack than the other, but because our lil ecosystems (homes) will need different things at dif…
2 years, 11 months ago
883 || balancing the worry gap
there may be times when one partner is picking up more slack than the other, but because our lil ecosystems (homes) will need different things at dif…
2 years, 11 months ago
882 || worry work
Emma Clit is ridiculously talented and everything I've consumed so far has been great and on brand, so I highly suggest going to check out her blog! …
2 years, 11 months ago
881 || baader meinhoff phenomenon
Today we're talking about the Baader Meinhof Phenomenon (the tendency to notice something more after noticing it the first time, leading us to believ…
2 years, 11 months ago
880 || mental load
The mental load (aka emotional load or cognitive labor or worry work) is the invisible labor that it takes to manage a household and if it's not goin…
2 years, 11 months ago
879 || real talk || body image
TW: mention of ED, diet culture, and poor body image.
Lately, I've been in denial about aging and as a result, I've let my "self care" fall to shit. T…
2 years, 11 months ago