Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchSexless Marriage: “I Love You… But I’m Not In Love With You”
Episode 372
A 47-year-old husband wrote to me after 17 years of marriage.
No big fights.
No confirmed cheating.
Just slow emotional drift.
Then one day she said:
“I l…
5 months ago
High-Conflict Divorce: What Men Get Wrong (w/ Chris and Lisa from "Been There, Got Out")
Episode 371
Divorce isn’t just emotional — it can turn into psychological warfare.
In this livestream, I sit down with Chris and Lisa from Been There Got Out, two…
5 months, 1 week ago
When Trauma Destroys Everything
Episode 370
How does someone hold their life together at a high level for years — career, marriage, kids — and then suddenly blow it all up?
I read a message from…
5 months, 2 weeks ago
Why Marriages Drift Into “Kids Only” Mode
Episode 368
Most marriages don’t blow up overnight.
They drift.
They drift from us…
to the family…
and eventually to two exhausted roommates running a daycare.
Once…
5 months, 3 weeks ago
Why Age Gaps Suddenly Became Creepy
Episode 367
For most of human history, age differences in couples weren’t controversial at all.
Now they’re treated like a moral crisis.
So what changed?
I break do…
5 months, 4 weeks ago
When Vulnerability Ends a Marriage
Episode 366
I got an email from a guy that perfectly captures a pattern I see over and over again.
An anxious man.
An avoidant wife.
Years of emotional distance.
One…
6 months, 1 week ago
The Real Reason Nothing You Try Ever Sticks
Episode 365
Most men don’t feel like their life is falling apart.
It just feels… off.
Not bad enough to force change.
Not good enough to feel proud of.
So they try n…
6 months, 2 weeks ago
How Men Drift Into Sexless Marriages
Episode 364
I want to read you a short email from a married man in a dead bedroom.
There’s no cheating.
No screaming fights.
No dramatic collapse.
Just a quiet decis…
6 months, 2 weeks ago
Why Doing Everything Right Fails
Episode 363
A lot of men reach a point where they say something quietly and honestly:
“I did everything right… and it still fell apart.”
I hear this all the time f…
6 months, 3 weeks ago
Why Your Marriage Became Sexless
Episode 362
Most men in sexless marriages did exactly what they were told to do.
They opened up more.They communicated better.They became more emotionally availab…6 months, 4 weeks ago