Podcast Episodes

“My Wife Calmly Told Me She’s Not Attracted to Me Anymore” – What That REALLY Means

Episode 321

Seventeen years of marriage. Three kids. Nice house. Dead bedroom for almost a decade.
 Then, during an argument, she looks him in the eye and says the words that’ll haunt him forever:
 “I’m just not a…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

Why Women Really Cheat (Dual Mating Strategy Explained)

Episode 322

Why do so many women in long-term relationships cheat—and often with men who seem like total losers?

In this video, I break down the science behind two popular theories about female infidelity: the Ma…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

"When Is It Time to Walk Away from Your Marriage?"

Episode 323

So many men ask me the same question: "How do I know when I've done enough?" They’ve put in the work. They’ve read the books. They’ve hit the gym, led with strength, stayed patient—and still… she avo…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

"My Wife Said I Was Her 'Safe Choice' – Now What?"

Episode 320

A husband finds out—after 12 years of marriage and two kids—that he was never his wife's first choice. After a night of drinks and a fight, she admitted she "settled" for him and still thinks about h…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

When She Tells You Who She Is... Listen

Episode 319

In this Dear DSO episode, I respond to a man who saw the signs early on—but kept going. She told him who she was from the beginning. The problem? He didn’t listen.

We talk about the consequences of ig…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

ADHD, Shame, and Approaching Women: Real Talk for Neurodivergent Men

Episode 318

Today’s Dear DSO submission is from a neurodivergent man—he’s got ADHD, a lot of anxiety, and not much dating experience. He feels like he’s defective, like he’ll never figure out how to talk to wome…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

Why Your Wife Changed Overnight: The Hidden Truth About Menopause and Marriage

Episode 317

Most men don’t see it coming—until their marriage is on life support.

One day she’s your best friend and lover… the next, she’s distant, irritable, and completely checked out. You think you did someth…

Published on 1 month, 4 weeks ago

"I Married a Woman Who Refused Sex for Two Years… What Was I Thinking?"

Episode 316

This one’s brutal. A 36-year-old man marries a 49-year-old woman who insisted they wait until marriage for sex. Two years in, he’s still never touched her. No sex. No intimacy. Nothing.

He’s confused,…

Published on 2 months ago

"She Kept a Log to Avoid Sex With Me — What Did I Do Wrong?"

Episode 315

Mr. K wrote in with a story that’s, sadly, all too familiar. He blames himself for a relationship that was dysfunctional from day one. She showed no attraction. She weaponized sex. She even stopped s…

Published on 2 months ago

“Why Autistic Men Attract Toxic Women”

Episode 314

Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, “What the hell was that?”

You were loyal. Honest. Steady.
 She was chaos.

This happens all the time to autistic men—diagnosed or not. They end up…

Published on 2 months, 1 week ago