Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchSexless Marriage... "She's Just Stressed" Is Often the Biggest Lie
Episode 400
"She's just stressed." The kids, the job, her mom, the move. You've been telling yourself that for seven years.
Real stress comes and goes. The deadli…
17 hours ago
How ADHD Can Impact Your Relationships - Live Chat with Cassie
Episode 404
Cassie is back. She's an occupational therapist who works with neurodiverse kids, she lectures at the college level, she'll have her PhD next May, an…
4 days, 17 hours ago
Sexless Marriage… She Said She'd Rather Get a Divorce Than Have Sex With Me Again
Episode 398
She didn't say she was tired. She didn't say "not tonight." She said she'd rather end the whole marriage than be physical with you again. And now you…
1 week ago
"I Didn't Have A Self" | An Avoidant Wife Explains What Broke
Episode 403
Kate is the admittedly avoidant partner to Tyler Ely, the anxious partner I had on a previous live stream. Tyler read The Dead Bedroom Fix, backed of…
1 week, 4 days ago
Sexless Marriage… She Says She Doesn't Feel "Safe" With You
Episode 396
She told you she needs to feel "safe" before she can want you again. So you did the logical thing. You got softer. Gentler. More patient. More accomm…
2 weeks ago
Sexless Marriage... How Long Will You Wait For Her To Change?
Episode 395
He told himself the same thing for eleven years. Just hold on until the kids are grown, then we'll reconnect. The empty nest came. Nothing changed.
I…
3 weeks ago
She Wasn't Born Cold: Where Your Wife's Avoidance Really Comes From | Ralph & Cassie.
Episode 399
New series, new co-host. Cassie (https://x.com/FutureDrSassy) is an occupational therapist, a researcher, and a certified pelvic floor therapist — an…
3 weeks, 3 days ago
Sexless Marriage… She Told Me To "Get It Somewhere Else" — Then Got Mad When I Started Looking
Episode 390
His wife said it five or six times over the course of a year. "If you need it that bad, just go find it somewhere else." He sat her down one night an…
4 weeks ago
Why Women Emasculate Men — and Why You Must NEVER Cave | Alison Armstrong Interview
Episode 397
Alison Armstrong has been studying men since 1991, when she caught herself bringing out the worst in them and assuming that's who men really were. Th…
1 month ago
Sexless Marriage... So I Stopped Initiating. She Didn't Notice.
Episode 389
He stopped initiating six months ago. He told himself it was a test. He waited for her to notice. She never did.
In this episode I break down what's a…
1 month ago