Podcast Episodes

"SSRIs Killed Her Sex Drive – What Do I Do?"

Episode 313

In this Dear DSO submission, Richie asks a brutally honest question: What do you do when your wife is on SSRIs, has no sex drive, and has basically shut down in the bedroom?

He’s not alone. A lot of m…

Published on 2 months, 1 week ago

The Final Talk: Should You End a Sexless Marriage?

Episode 312

In this episode of Dear DSO, a man named Mark writes in about the pain of being stuck in a long-term, sexless marriage. He’s done the work—therapy, self-improvement, romantic gestures—but his wife st…

Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago

Is She Avoidant... or Just Not That Into You?

Episode 311

I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment style—or is she just not that into you?

In today’s Dea…

Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago

"Worried About My Adult Kids Stuck With a Toxic Mom"

Episode 310

In this Dear DSO episode, we tackle Holden’s powerful story:
 ✅ A 22-year marriage, wrecked by infidelity
 ✅ A toxic ex dragging their adult kids down
 ✅ A father who rebuilt his life, career, and confi…

Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago

Why She Hasn’t Touched You in 8 Years (And Why Chores Won’t Fix It)

Episode 309

In this episode of Dear DSO, I tackle Dave’s story — he’s been married 13 years, but for the last eight, the bedroom has been dead. Less than 10 times a year. He’s doing the chores, paying the bills,…

Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago

“Am I a Sex Maniac… or Just a Normal Guy?”

Episode 308

Is it wrong to want more sex in your marriage? What if your wife thinks you're a pervert for having a normal male sex drive?

In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a submission from a man who feels…

Published on 2 months, 4 weeks ago

Will a Vasectomy Kill Her Desire for You?

Episode 307

In this Dear DSO episode, we’re diving into a common and surprisingly emotional question:
 "If I get a vasectomy, will my wife still want me?"

This one came from Matt — a father of three, married for f…

Published on 3 months ago

Post-Divorce Midlife Crisis: Should You Hit the Road or Stay Safe?

Episode 306

In this “Dear DSO” episode, I respond to a story from John—a newly separated man wondering if it’s time to ditch the 9-to-5 life, buy a van, and find himself on the open road.

Is this a classic midlif…

Published on 3 months ago

"I Caught Her Messaging Another Man… So I Ended It. Was I Wrong?"

Episode 305

In this Dear DSO submission, a follower named John reached out to share his story. He was in a long-distance relationship, had clear boundaries about contact with the opposite sex, and discovered tha…

Published on 3 months, 1 week ago

“30 Years in a Dead Bedroom… Then She Finally Told Me Why” - Live Chat With Michael

Episode 304

Michael reached out to me with a story I hear way too often. Thirty years of a sexless marriage, confusion, shame, guilt — and then, one day, his wife finally opens up with a truth that changed every…

Published on 3 months, 1 week ago