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#166 Why Shame Is the Enemy of Accountability — And What to Do About It with Jacob Fletcher, CMCH, CSAT
Season 3 Episode 166
One of the biggest obstacles to healing after betrayal isn't a lack of love — it's shame. When the person in recovery floods with shame, they lose th…
3 months, 3 weeks ago
#165 The Groundhog Day of Disclosure: Why the Same Questions Keep Coming
Season 3 Episode 165
After betrayal, one of the most exhausting patterns couples hit is what I call the Groundhog Day of disclosure: the betrayed partner asking the same …
4 months ago
#164 The Children in the Room: Navigating Divorce and Betrayal Without Breaking Your Kids with Katie Padilla, Certified Family Law Specialist
Season 3 Episode 164
When a marriage is in crisis, the conversation almost always centers on the couple. But what about the children sitting in the middle of it?
In this e…
4 months, 1 week ago
#163 Control Isn't Safety: Understanding the Parent-Child Dynamic After Betrayal
Season 3 Episode 163
If you've been checking your partner's location for the fifth time in an hour - or waiting for your spouse to hand you a roadmap to your own recovery…
4 months, 2 weeks ago
#162 When ADHD Meets Betrayal Trauma: Understanding Recovery for the Whole Family System with Monifa Ellis-Addie, LMFT, CSAT, CCSP and Morgan Ellsworth, LAMFT, CCSP
Season 3 Episode 161
What happens when ADHD and betrayal trauma collide in the same family? This episode is one of the most important conversations we've had on the podca…
4 months, 3 weeks ago
#161 Why Can’t We Connect Deeper? Exploring the Hidden Struggles of Connection After Betrayal
Season 3 Episode 161
One of the most confusing parts of healing after betrayal is that couples can do “all the right things” and still feel emotionally disconnected.
In th…
5 months ago
#160 When Your Body Decides the Relationship Is No Longer Safe" Understanding the Nervous System Trauma Loop in Betrayal Recovery
Season 3 Episode 160
Have you ever wondered why you and your partner keep having the same painful conversations — even when you both want things to be different? The answ…
5 months, 1 week ago
***BONUS EPISODE*** You’re Invited: Becoming Together Mother-Daughter Retreat with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
Season 3
What does it look like when a mother and daughter do the healing work together? In this special episode, I'm joined by my daughters to pull back the …
5 months, 1 week ago
#159 Why Every Conversation Feels So Hard After Betrayal
Season 3 Episode 159
After infidelity or betrayal, even simple conversations can feel loaded, tense, or unsafe.
You may feel like:
You’re trying to connect… but it keeps go…
5 months, 2 weeks ago
#158 What Actually Changes When Healing Is Happening
Season 3 Episode 158
After betrayal, one of the most common questions couples ask is: “How do we know if we’re actually healing?” Are we moving forward… or just surviving…
5 months, 3 weeks ago