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How Good Boundaries Set You Free to Enjoy Your Relationships
Many of us who grew up in dysfunctional families struggle to recognize or create boundaries that work. You may be fed up with people who ignore your …
2 years, 6 months ago
Their Behavior Generates Insecurity And Obsession In YOU
When you date a Love Addict, YOU become their drug. At first they can make you feel like the most special, beautiful person, and all the pain and lon…
2 years, 6 months ago
Neglect In Childhood Primes You to Eroticize Abandonment
When your parents didn’t love you properly, the feeling of falling in love is often followed by a dramatic lapse into insecurity. When they pull away…
2 years, 6 months ago
Some People Feel Betrayed When YOU Heal Your Trauma
Many people in your life really do want the best for you, but there are others who act as if you've done a terrible thing by working on your trauma. …
2 years, 6 months ago
Childhood Neglect And The Feeling That You Can Never Belong
Childhood PTSD is, in essence, an injury to the ability to connect with other people. So it's no surprise that abuse and neglect in your childhood ma…
2 years, 6 months ago
If You "Throw" Love At Unavailable People, It Could Be From Wounds of Neglect
People neglected as children sometimes spend their WHOLE life longing or love – chasing it, fighting for it, longing for it, and never having it, all…
2 years, 6 months ago
How to Set Boundaries When They're Obsessed With Their Next Love Object
Ever get the feeling you're just an accessory for a friend who is romantically obsessed? They WANT to hang out with you, and they love to tell you ab…
2 years, 6 months ago
When Too Many Bad Things Happen At Once, DO THIS To Hold On, Stay Strong
There are times in your life when so many bad things happen at once, that you go into what I call a "trauma storm." The shock to your nervous system …
2 years, 6 months ago
Why You Didn't See The Red Flags
When you're first dating someone, it can be easy ONLY to see what you love about them. If you grew up with abuse or neglect, you may have a blind spo…
2 years, 6 months ago
Why You Fall For Unavailable People
The need for love and security is SO strong that some people will do *anything* to feel like they’re in a relationship. If you attach to people you k…
2 years, 6 months ago