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How to End Limerence Before You Destroy Everything Good
Once in a while, I get a letter seeking my advice that’s so serious I’m not sure if I should read it on YouTube. Usually I decline, but in the case o…
1 year, 10 months ago
What to Tell MDs Who Just Don’t Get It About CPTSD
For a lot of people who were abused or neglected in childhood, going to the doctor is a huge trigger. The questions they ask, the fact that they need…
1 year, 10 months ago
Childhood Trauma and Damaged Perception (4-Video Compilation)
As a child you developed the ability to use "magical thinking" to cope with abuse and neglect, but NOW, as an adult, it just might be blocking you fr…
1 year, 10 months ago
Here’s How You Know It’s Time to Tell Him You’re Into Him
You have a friend you’re secretly in love with. You thought you had to act like just a friend, to keep them as a friend, because you were sure they w…
1 year, 10 months ago
How Trauma Makes It Hard to Recognize What’s Really Happening
When traumatized people date, it’s easy to detach from reality, and create elaborate constructs that explain why other people do what they do, and wh…
1 year, 10 months ago
You May Be Signalling to Others That You Feel “Less-Than”
Even if you're good at acting confident, you may be giving off signs that you feel "less than" other people. Low self-esteem can have the effect of p…
1 year, 10 months ago
They're Not Into You, So You Love Them MORE (4-Video Compilation)
People neglected as children sometimes spend their WHOLE life longing for love – chasing it, fighting for it, and never having it, all because of an …
1 year, 10 months ago
Family Emotional Abuse and The Lifelong Sense of Disconnection
It’s a terrible form of abuse when whole families gang up on one person. Sometimes it’s scapegoating, where they blame you for problems you never cau…
1 year, 10 months ago
How to Keep Narcissistic Parents From Controlling Your Life
Some people get consumed by narcissistic loved ones they’re trying to stay connected with. Other people get off the treadmill by going no contact. Bu…
1 year, 10 months ago
This Mindset Strengthens You to Overcome Childhood Trauma
I have a secret portal that allows me to see and understand what childhood trauma does to people -- the different patterns it follows, and which kind…
1 year, 10 months ago