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Childhood Trauma Drives You to ATTACH to People Who Can’t Love You
This is what it feels like to fall for an avoidant: First, there’s a STRONG feeling of connection, like the feeling you knew was possible, and you re…
11 months, 1 week ago
20 Signs That Signal YOU Are Partner Material
It can be HARD to find the right person and form a deep and lasting romantic relationship -- especially if you've had trauma in your past, or you com…
11 months, 1 week ago
Childhood Trauma and Self-Defeating Behavior
Abuse and neglect in childhood can set in motion lifelong trauma symptoms. The people who hurt you are 100% responsible for this harm... it's NOT you…
11 months, 1 week ago
The Reason They're Pushing You Away Is Not Because They Need Your "Help"
If your attachment style is so anxious and insecure that when your partner pushes you away, and says “I don’t want to be with you anymore,” – YOU hol…
11 months, 1 week ago
Dating Rules to To Help YOU Stop Doing EVERYTHING For Your Mate
Your partner is not your child, so if you're doing everything for them (when they could do these things for themselves), you are overfunctioning. If …
11 months, 2 weeks ago
Trauma Makes You Prone to Conflict: Here's How to Stop
Having more than your share of conflict with other people is a common adult symptom of growing up with neglect and abuse. Fighting, arguing, and fall…
11 months, 2 weeks ago
Triggering Past Trauma in Relationships
Attachment wounds stem from your primary relationship with parents when you were a child, and affect who you fall in love with, and how you behave in…
11 months, 2 weeks ago
How to Tell It's Time to Leave Your "Safe" Relationship
It’s so hard to know if you should stay in a safe relationship even though it’s dull, or break up with that person so you can try for something more …
11 months, 2 weeks ago
Harsh Signals (You Don't Realize You're Sending) Push Men Away
People with CPTSD often end up with a harsh "edge" to their personalities, especially when they feel vulnerable. It's no surprise that after a childh…
11 months, 3 weeks ago
How to Identify and Escape "Spiritual" Manipulation
Unfortunately, it can be very easy to take advantage of people who were traumatized as kids, and make them think that some uncomfortable or painful o…
11 months, 3 weeks ago