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The Adapting Chameleon Personality - When they hurt you to get rid of you - Accepting or denying toxic family members
Episode 221
1. Are you a chameleon? Do you change as needed for every person and situation? If so, is it really serving you? 2. If someone has ever hurt you so t…
8 years, 6 months ago
When your partner sides with their family against you
Episode 220
If your partner's family is against you and your partner sides with them, what do you do? When you can't feel safe in your own relationship because y…
8 years, 6 months ago
The cheater who went from kind to cold when caught - Ex won't return even after I improve - Your intuition needs closure
Episode 219
1 She caught her husband cheating, he blamed her and her family for the affair. He used to be loving and supportive. Now that he can't get his way, h…
8 years, 7 months ago
Holding on to a lie to keep the relationship going
Episode 218
When you find out a lie that your partner has been holding on to for months or years, where does that leave the relationship? What if it's a minor li…
8 years, 7 months ago
Attracting higher quality partners - Feeling sorry for those that abuse you - Try, try again or do or do not_
Episode 217
1. Do you attract the worst partners? What does it take to find a normal person to date? There is a path to attracting quality partners but it may in…
8 years, 7 months ago
Escaping the Real World - Kids and the Narcissistic Parent - The Isolation of the Child Sexual Abuse Survivor
Episode 216
Do you fantasize, daydream, play video games, or watch TV in hopes that you won't have to deal with reality? It's not all bad, but anything in modera…
8 years, 7 months ago
Losing love and the general lies we tell ourselves
Episode 215
Black or white thinking can lead you to be untrusting of people and the world in general. If you've loved and lost and cannot figure out how to love …
8 years, 7 months ago
Freeze instead of fight or flight - Learning what didn't work with the ex - Healing the hole in your heart
Episode 214
Do you freeze when you get stressed? Learn what you can do to stop the freeze before it happens. What didn't work in your last relationship that you …
8 years, 8 months ago
The abuse victim's perspective - Step-parents and step-children - When honoring yourself leads to loneliness
Episode 213
Why don't abuse victims leave the relationship? In this first segment I talk about the perspective of the abuse victim and no matter how much sense i…
8 years, 8 months ago
Keeping Your Relationship from Slipping into Dysfunction
Episode 212
If you've had ups and downs with your relationship and you're ready to keep it on track so it doesn't start slipping back down, I'll tell you ten ste…
8 years, 8 months ago