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When Your Partner's Friends/Family Dislike You
Season 5 Episode 8
Straight talk on this common issue that I see in pursuer-distancer couples, especially preoccupied women with avoidant men. Often your issues with th…
1 year, 2 months ago
Who Lies In Therapy, And Why?
Season 5 Episode 7
Today I discuss the reasons that people are dishonest in therapy, how to reframe this, and a challenge if you're in therapy for your next session!
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1 year, 2 months ago
When Your Defensiveness Stops Sex In Its Tracks
Season 5 Episode 6
Many men underestimate how much of a turnoff defensiveness is to women. Even if a woman wanted to have sex with you that evening, an interaction wher…
1 year, 2 months ago
Is Your Relationship Like Chat GPT?
Season 5 Episode 4
Some people are in a dynamic that's like Chat GPT... and they don't even know until it stops! Today I discuss who gets into this type of dynamic (on …
1 year, 2 months ago
Interview With A Sexologist... Heather Ray!
Season 5 Episode 3
You may know Heather Ray from the workshops and videos she's done for the practice: Lick It Right, Partner's Guide To Female Pleasure, and Blow His M…
1 year, 2 months ago
When You Try And Make Up For Not Having Had Young, Casual Sex Within Your Marital Sex Life
Season 5 Episode 2
Today I discuss when men who are late bloomers or "gentleman eunuchs" try to have wild and experimental sex in their marriages to compensate for not …
1 year, 2 months ago
The Two House Solution?
Season 4 Episode 200
I often see wealthier couples get a second home as a "fun new thing" to do as a family. At first they think of this extra space as a way to solve the…
1 year, 3 months ago
Is It Important For Your Therapist To Have "Lived Experience" In The Area You're Looking To Address?
Season 4 Episode 199
Many people ask whether it's important for their therapist to have personal experience in the life area that they are working on (e.g., marriage, par…
1 year, 3 months ago
What Would You Do If You Had Only 30 Years To Live?
Season 4 Episode 198
We say this about 1, 5 or 10 years... but what about 30? This is the central question of midlife and framing it this way can help you clarify your th…
1 year, 3 months ago
Your Legal Divorce Questions Answered: An Interview With Evan Koslow, Family Law Attorney
Season 4 Episode 196
Today I have a treat... an interview with family law attorney, mediator, and divorced dad Evan Koslow. He handles complex divorce cases and answers a…
1 year, 3 months ago