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When You Find Yourself Thinking You're Better Than Your Spouse And They Should Be Grateful
Season 4 Episode 136
Some people come into marital therapy assuming the therapist will recognize that they are awesome, far more awesome than their spouse, and they are h…
1 year ago
When You Make More Money And Expect Your Wife To Change Her Whole Value System
Season 4 Episode 135
Often, men think that after they make a bunch of money, their wives should change their daily activities from laundry and book club to HRT and screwi…
1 year ago
A Reason Your Spouse Refuses Individual Therapy That You Never Thought Of
Season 4 Episode 133
This can be a huge wakeup call if you're someone who looks down on your spouse for not trying individual therapy. If you're the critical partner... t…
1 year ago
You Don't Love Your Husband If You Won't Touch Him
Season 4 Episode 132
This is just nonsensical and crazy-making for him and for you! How to be real with yourself and what to say instead, with scripts! And here's our upc…
1 year ago
Yes, Your SAHM Wife Should Get 50% Of The Joint Wealth After Divorce
Season 4 Episode 131
Thankfully I see this ideology very infrequently in practice but it's all over internet comments. Here's a helpful reframe if you've ever thought she…
1 year ago
When You're "Scared Of Hard Work"
Season 4 Episode 129
Are you really? Or could it be one of these issues underlying what seems to be a fear of hard work? Today's episode also includes an epiphany about o…
1 year ago
"What If You Used Porn Before Your Relationship Started, Should You Stop?"
Season 4 Episode 128
Got this question as well as the second one, "If you never used porn but want to start using it after a while in your relationship, isn't that the wo…
1 year ago
Should You Wait For A Partner Who Is A Perfect Fit?
Season 4 Episode 127
My sweater analogy.... and why people are drawn to people who are NOT a good fit! Here's our two upcoming groups I mentioned also. Better Breakup: ht…
1 year ago
Responsive Desire Only Kicks In If You Are Enthusiastic About Her
Season 4 Episode 125
Some guys are so bored with their partner that they execute foreplay like it's the Bataan Death March, or like Patrick Bateman in American Psycho wit…
1 year ago
"I Wouldn't Date My Spouse If I Met Them Now!"
Season 4 Episode 124
Nobody would go on a date with a bored, dull married person lol. Here's a question to ask yourself instead, and see how the reframe opens your mind t…
1 year, 1 month ago