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Silent Divorce, or Quiet Quitting Your Marriage
Season 4 Episode 180
The idea of "silent divorce" has been all over popular media. Here's what it is, who is at risk, who can repair and how, and the attachment dynamics …
10 months, 3 weeks ago
Yes, You May Be Able To Repair Estrangement With Your Adult Child
Season 4 Episode 179
I am in the process of potentially writing a book about estrangement, and came across the statistic that 50% of people would be open to repairing an …
10 months, 4 weeks ago
In-Law Issues... A New Perspective
Season 4 Episode 177
Not the most flattering podcast episode you'll ever hear if you have inlaw issues... but the most realistic, practical, and (should you choose to rea…
11 months ago
Redo vs. Second Act Vision Of Remarriage
Season 4 Episode 177
I work with many couples who are in their second marriage, and often the man is older and has kids already. In some of these marriages, the woman vie…
11 months, 1 week ago
The Transition From A Woman's 30's To Her 40's
Season 4 Episode 167
The transition from women's 30's to 40's can feel very significant. Here's a deep dive into aging, how couples can accept the reality of life moving …
11 months, 1 week ago
In Their 40's, Many Women Stop Being The Preoccupied Attachment/Pursuer Partner
Season 4 Episode 175
Why do pursuing women stop in their 40's? How does the avoidant attachment man feel about it? And what else characterizes the post-pursuing midlife w…
11 months, 1 week ago
Divorce From Each Attachment Style
Season 4 Episode 174
What is it like to be divorced from someone who is secure, avoidant, preoccupied, or fearful avoidant? Today's episode goes into depth about what I'v…
11 months, 2 weeks ago
The Passive Aggressive "Shock" Reaction To Your Partner Doing Something Nice
Season 4 Episode 173
If your partner does something nice, like doing the laundry or giving you a kiss, and you react with TREMENDOUS SHOCK, this is passive aggressive. Yo…
11 months, 2 weeks ago
Mental Load? Or Depression/Anxiety?
Season 4 Episode 172
In today's episode, I go in depth into one of my favorite topics: mental load. Is the problem really mental load/emotional labor? What is underneath …
11 months, 3 weeks ago
"She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink".... Interview With Matthew Fray!
Season 4 Episode 171
Today we have a special treat! An interview with Matthew Fray, who wrote the viral post that every woman my age remembers.... "She Divorced Me Becaus…
11 months, 3 weeks ago