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Your Parents May Have Been Depressed, Not Just Angry Or Cold
Season 4 Episode 184
It is an epiphany to many clients that their parents were likely depressed, and not just "quiet," "irritable," "detached," or "angry." Today's episod…
1 year, 4 months ago
LOVE vs CHIP Communication To Transform Your Relationships!
Season 4 Episode 183
I created my LOVE acronym for parents in conflict with their adult children, but it can be used for all relationships where you love someone, but the…
1 year, 4 months ago
When You're Good At Receiving Feedback... Except From Your Wife
Season 4 Episode 181
Many men think they are great at receiving feedback, but the reality is that they aren't, at least not within their marriages. Here's how it feels fo…
1 year, 4 months ago
Silent Divorce, or Quiet Quitting Your Marriage
Season 4 Episode 180
The idea of "silent divorce" has been all over popular media. Here's what it is, who is at risk, who can repair and how, and the attachment dynamics …
1 year, 4 months ago
Yes, You May Be Able To Repair Estrangement With Your Adult Child
Season 4 Episode 179
I am in the process of potentially writing a book about estrangement, and came across the statistic that 50% of people would be open to repairing an …
1 year, 5 months ago
In-Law Issues... A New Perspective
Season 4 Episode 177
Not the most flattering podcast episode you'll ever hear if you have inlaw issues... but the most realistic, practical, and (should you choose to rea…
1 year, 5 months ago
Redo vs. Second Act Vision Of Remarriage
Season 4 Episode 177
I work with many couples who are in their second marriage, and often the man is older and has kids already. In some of these marriages, the woman vie…
1 year, 5 months ago
The Transition From A Woman's 30's To Her 40's
Season 4 Episode 167
The transition from women's 30's to 40's can feel very significant. Here's a deep dive into aging, how couples can accept the reality of life moving …
1 year, 5 months ago
In Their 40's, Many Women Stop Being The Preoccupied Attachment/Pursuer Partner
Season 4 Episode 175
Why do pursuing women stop in their 40's? How does the avoidant attachment man feel about it? And what else characterizes the post-pursuing midlife w…
1 year, 5 months ago
Divorce From Each Attachment Style
Season 4 Episode 174
What is it like to be divorced from someone who is secure, avoidant, preoccupied, or fearful avoidant? Today's episode goes into depth about what I'v…
1 year, 5 months ago