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Should You Wait To Leave Your Marriage Until The Kids Are Out Of The House?
Season 4 Episode 84
Many clients of both genders struggle with the decision of whether to get divorced before or after the kids leave home. There are pros and cons to ea…
1 year, 3 months ago
Which Guys Hate The Idea Of Responsive Desire?
Season 4 Episode 83
Most men find it very useful to learn about responsive desire, which means needing to be touched in order to get excited. This is the kind of desire …
1 year, 4 months ago
Little Ways To Connect With Your Partner Every Day
Season 4 Episode 82
So many people who grew up in dysfunctional homes have no idea how to connect to their partners in a playful and sweet way without doing some huge ge…
1 year, 4 months ago
When You Are Wealthy, The Only Meaningful Currency Is Time
Season 4 Episode 80
In my wealthiest clients, the only metric that makes sense of what is meaningful is time. Since you can't buy more time, here are ways people try to …
1 year, 4 months ago
Remember, Your Life Would Go On Even If A Bad Thing Happened
Season 4 Episode 79
Many very anxious people are consumed with fear of their own potential devastation or inability to cope if a bad thing were to happen to them. Some e…
1 year, 4 months ago
The Real Compatibility: Having The Same Idea Of How Important The Relationship Is
Season 4 Episode 78
This is stuff that securely attached people know from their upbringings and the rest of us have to learn. Can be a game changing paradigm shift!
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1 year, 4 months ago
Emotional Labor Isn't The Problem
Season 4 Episode 76
Emotional labor isn't the problem guys. This term is so widely misused it's nuts. Here's who uses it and why.
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1 year, 4 months ago
"Nothing Is Only Good" AKA The Anxious Mantra
Season 4 Episode 75
Many clients I see are unaware that they are anxious, which is why I write so many posts about how to recognize your anxiety. As I’ve often discussed…
1 year, 4 months ago
If You Can't Do Scary Things For You... Do Them For Your Kids!
Season 4 Episode 74
Many people can't put themselves out there and do scary things... until they figure out a motivator that makes sense to them. For many parents, this …
1 year, 4 months ago
Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Only Friend
Season 4 Episode 72
Some people have very few social relationships and almost nobody, or truly nobody, that they feel close to except for their partner (and kids). Here'…
1 year, 4 months ago