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The Passive Aggressive "Shock" Reaction To Your Partner Doing Something Nice
Season 4 Episode 173
If your partner does something nice, like doing the laundry or giving you a kiss, and you react with TREMENDOUS SHOCK, this is passive aggressive. Yo…
1 year, 5 months ago
Mental Load? Or Depression/Anxiety?
Season 4 Episode 172
In today's episode, I go in depth into one of my favorite topics: mental load. Is the problem really mental load/emotional labor? What is underneath …
1 year, 5 months ago
"She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink".... Interview With Matthew Fray!
Season 4 Episode 171
Today we have a special treat! An interview with Matthew Fray, who wrote the viral post that every woman my age remembers.... "She Divorced Me Becaus…
1 year, 5 months ago
When A Parent Commits Suicide... Or When You Yourself Feel Suicidal
Season 4 Episode 169
After reading the book Us, After by Rachel Zimmerman (https://amzn.to/4239BfW), I wanted to dive into the topic of when a parent commits suicide and …
1 year, 6 months ago
Are You Really An Introvert Or Do You Have Social Anxiety?
Season 4 Episode 168
Introverts aren't scared of people or embarrassing themselves. If you are, you likely have social anxiety, which can constrict the lives of your chil…
1 year, 6 months ago
How Do Real Women Initiate Sex?
Season 4 Episode 166
If you're used to the initiation style that women use in porn, and don't have much non-honeymoon stage experience with other women, you may well miss…
1 year, 6 months ago
Parentified Children/Surrogate Spouses
Season 4 Episode 165
Some children have to act like parents or even spouses to their own parents. How and why does this manifest, and how does it impact later adult intim…
1 year, 6 months ago
"I'm Depressed Because Of My Spouse"
Season 4 Episode 164
No, your spouse doesn't make you depressed or not depressed. If you think this, it is related to your attachment style, not your depression or even y…
1 year, 6 months ago
How Do Securely Attached People Feel About The Decrease In Sex/Romance In A Long Relationship?
Season 4 Episode 163
Often preoccupied attachment men think that the only possible response to a sex decreasing in frequency over a long relationship is depression and pa…
1 year, 6 months ago
How To Message On Dating Apps For My Listeners In Their 50's And Up!
Season 4 Episode 161
My experience helping a friend message on Bumble! Very practical dating advice if you struggle with having your guard up or with anxiety.
Here's Carol…
1 year, 6 months ago