Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchPassivity isn't a fruit of the spirit
Season 3 Episode 82
What if the “peace” you’re protecting in your marriage… is actually costing you real connection?
In this episode, we’re unpacking how passivity can di…
9 months, 3 weeks ago
Date Fail Debrief: Control Freak & Shut Down
Season 3 Episode 81
What do you get when you mix a paddleboard, high expectations, and two humans with emotions?
Definitely not the relaxing date we envisioned. But maybe…
9 months, 4 weeks ago
You, Me &… Nobody Else?- isolation in marriage
Season 3 Episode 80
In this episode, we’re tackling a subtle but serious issue in marriage: isolation.
What happens when your spouse becomes your only source of connectio…
10 months, 2 weeks ago
16 Questions for your next date night
Season 3 Episode 79
🎉 It’s our 16th anniversary, and apparently our marriage is now old enough to get its driver’s license. 😅
But let’s be real—
Even after 16 years, date…
10 months, 3 weeks ago
Slow Miracles
Season 3 Episode 78
Not all breakthroughs come in a flash. In this episode, we talk about the kind of transformation that happens slowly—over months or even years. The k…
11 months ago
Welcome back, now what?
Season 3 Episode 77
In this episode, we talk about the often-overlooked rhythm of re-entry—what it looks like when one spouse returns from a trip and the home dynamic sh…
11 months, 3 weeks ago
Avoiding Birthday Blues & Blowouts
Season 3 Episode 76
Birthdays—love them or dread them, they can be a surprisingly tense topic in marriage. 🎂 From unspoken expectations to last-minute letdowns, these sp…
1 year, 1 month ago
You're Blocking Your Own Connection (Without Even Realizing It)
Season 3 Episode 75
In this episode, we’re tackling the hidden ways we sabotage our own connection in marriage—especially when we expect our spouse to read our minds. No…
1 year, 1 month ago
Internal vs External Processing Styles
Season 3 Episode 74
In this episode, we talk about our respective styles of processing how we are feeling. Aaron is an external processor, needing to externalize what's …
1 year, 2 months ago
The Compassion Cup vs. The Identity Cup: A Marriage Game-Changer
Season 3 Episode 73
In this episode, we continue our conversation about changing how we show up in conflict by focusing on the choice we have in how we respond to our sp…
1 year, 2 months ago