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Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older
My readers often ask me to create specific programs for them. “Why can’t you create something for women in their 60’s who are facing a smaller dating…
1 year, 11 months ago
Are You Trying to Change Him?
You know the narrative. Men suck. There are no good ones left. They’re all narcissists or losers or emotionally unavailable. The cute ones don’t want…
1 year, 11 months ago
Should You Be Happy Alone?
My smart, successful clients have all loved and lost. Yet they recovered to rebuild their lives and fill it with meaningful work, travel, hobbies and…
1 year, 11 months ago
Men Are About Feelings
While it’s easy to get mad at guys who overvalue youth and beauty, the truth is that you need more than looks to be with a quality man. In fact, qual…
2 years ago
3 Steps to Determine If He Gets a Second Date
When you’ve had bad luck with men, it’s easy to question your judgment. How important is chemistry? When can you tell if there’s compatibiity? How mu…
2 years ago
Everyone is Someone’s Second Choice
Don Miguel Ruiz wrote The Four Agreements. One of them is “Don’t Take Anything Personally.” Nowhere is that more relevant than in the world of dating…
2 years ago
A Thought Experiment To Help You Persevere In Dating
No one wants to become a dating expert. No one wants to go on 300 dates. No one wants to renew their Match membership. Yet, in order to find someone …
2 years ago
I Was Wrong
After 20 years of coaching, 1000 blog posts, 300 podcasts, I was bound to make some mistakes. We’re all human. We all have biases. We all have blind …
2 years, 1 month ago
How You Can Be Your Most Authentic in Dating
Dating brings up all your insecurities. Am I attractive enough? Young enough? Smart enough? Am I worthy? When those thoughts are running through your…
2 years, 1 month ago
There Is No Going Back
If you’ve ever tried to rekindle a relationship with your ex, you’re aware of how powerful the allure can be. There’s a deep love, a deep understandi…
2 years, 1 month ago