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3 Steps to Determine If He Gets a Second Date
When you’ve had bad luck with men, it’s easy to question your judgment. How important is chemistry? When can you tell if there’s compatibiity? How much time should you invest to discover if there’s e…
Published on 1 year, 9 months ago
Everyone is Someone’s Second Choice
Don Miguel Ruiz wrote The Four Agreements. One of them is “Don’t Take Anything Personally.” Nowhere is that more relevant than in the world of dating. Texting, hooking up, ghosting, breadcrumbing, en…
Published on 1 year, 9 months ago
A Thought Experiment To Help You Persevere In Dating
No one wants to become a dating expert. No one wants to go on 300 dates. No one wants to renew their Match membership. Yet, in order to find someone special, there is nothing more valuable than the p…
Published on 1 year, 9 months ago
I Was Wrong
After 20 years of coaching, 1000 blog posts, 300 podcasts, I was bound to make some mistakes. We’re all human. We all have biases. We all have blind spots. On this episode, I’m going to share a few w…
Published on 1 year, 10 months ago
How You Can Be Your Most Authentic in Dating
Dating brings up all your insecurities. Am I attractive enough? Young enough? Smart enough? Am I worthy? When those thoughts are running through your head, it’s hard to be the best version of you. Wh…
Published on 1 year, 10 months ago
There Is No Going Back
If you’ve ever tried to rekindle a relationship with your ex, you’re aware of how powerful the allure can be. There’s a deep love, a deep understanding, a deep friendship that you don’t want to let g…
Published on 1 year, 10 months ago
Avoid the Overcorrection
If you were in a relationship without passion, you’ll look for passion your next partner. If you were with a financially unstable man, it makes sense to seek a man who is much wealthier. But sometime…
Published on 1 year, 10 months ago
Do You Act on Red Flags – Or Ignore Them?
You may go months or years without a strong connection with a guy. When you find it, you want to preserve it at all costs. But what if you discover, sometime in the first month of dating, that there …
Published on 1 year, 10 months ago
Are You Following Your Core Values in Dating?
Dating can throw you off your axis. Whether you’re getting rejected by strangers online or being treated poorly by someone who claims to care about you, it’s easy to become anxious, confused, or angr…
Published on 1 year, 11 months ago
Is it a Problem or the Fear of a Problem?
When you’ve been burned by men, it’s easy to see danger lurking around every corner. He’s friends with his ex? Probably a cheater. He’s unhappy at his job? Clinically depressed. He texts multiple tim…
Published on 1 year, 11 months ago