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The Importance of Attraction
Although dating coaches tend to emphasize compatibility over attraction, make no mistake: attraction is important. Good sex is important. And figuring out the blend between passion and comfort is the…
Published on 1 year, 7 months ago
How to Apologize (Even When You’re Not Wrong)
Even good relationships involve conflict and compromise. You know what it’s like to be with a guy who isn’t a fair fighter. He raises his voice. He shuts down. He hurls insults. He brings up other ar…
Published on 1 year, 7 months ago
Do You Assume the Worst in Men?
When you’ve been hurt and disappointed, it’s easy to assume that the next guy is going to do the same. The problem is that not all men are bad. And if you’re dating a nice, commitment-oriented guy an…
Published on 1 year, 7 months ago
What to Do When He Asks Why You’re Single
You may find it annoying or triggering but it’s common for men to ask you why you’re still single. Instead of shutting down or overexplaining, it’s important to be able to answer this question with p…
Published on 1 year, 7 months ago
Why Married Men Are a Hell No!
I know it should seem obvious but the fact that I recorded a podcast about it means that plenty of women still find married men alluring. In this episode, we’ll talk about why married men are often m…
Published on 1 year, 7 months ago
How to Balance an Anxious/Avoidant Attachment Style
If you didn’t have a healthy nuclear family with loving married parents, its likely that you formed an attachment style that is either anxious or avoidant. But what happens when your anxiety turns in…
Published on 1 year, 8 months ago
Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older
My readers often ask me to create specific programs for them. “Why can’t you create something for women in their 60’s who are facing a smaller dating pool with men who are retired, widowed, unhealthy…
Published on 1 year, 8 months ago
Are You Trying to Change Him?
You know the narrative. Men suck. There are no good ones left. They’re all narcissists or losers or emotionally unavailable. The cute ones don’t want to settle down. The ones who want to settle down …
Published on 1 year, 8 months ago
Should You Be Happy Alone?
My smart, successful clients have all loved and lost. Yet they recovered to rebuild their lives and fill it with meaningful work, travel, hobbies and friendship. Today’s question is whether this is e…
Published on 1 year, 8 months ago
Men Are About Feelings
While it’s easy to get mad at guys who overvalue youth and beauty, the truth is that you need more than looks to be with a quality man. In fact, quality men are all about how you make them FEEL. If y…
Published on 1 year, 9 months ago