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Maarit (Blended Family Frappe): Stepparenting in High Conflict
Season 2023 Episode 74
There is a myth that friendly co-parenting is the norm, and that if it is a war at your house, the problem must be you. Maarit built a whole platform…
2 years, 8 months ago
Leslie Miller: Why Family Court Retraumatizes You
Season 2023 Episode 73
Trauma has a common thread through it: a loss of control, and the sense that your autonomy is being taken from you. Psychotherapist Leslie Miller poi…
2 years, 8 months ago
James Peet: How a Fraud Examiner Finds the Money Your Spouse Is Hiding
Season 2023 Episode 72
Financial infidelity usually isn't about a secret relationship. It's about a secret account, a cleared browser history, and mail that stopped showing…
2 years, 9 months ago
Asia Scarlett-Jones: What Your Family Lawyer Can and Can't Do
Season 2023 Episode 71
When a lawyer cries with you, it feels caring. Asia Scarlett-Jones argues it is the opposite of what you are paying for. Her job, she says, is to tak…
2 years, 9 months ago
Joy Rosenthal: The Four Things Every Divorce Must Settle
Season 2023 Episode 70
When a New York judge decides custody, one of the things they weigh heavily is which parent is more willing to support the child's relationship with …
3 years ago
Modupe Ladipo: Male Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
Season 2023 Episode 69
Modupe Ladipo set out to build a program for men. Men kept signing up, and so did women, and he decided that was the answer to a question he had not …
3 years ago
Joy Rosenthal: How Divorce Mediation Actually Works
Season 2023 Episode 68
What separates mediators, Joy Rosenthal says, is not technique. It is mindset. Most divorce mediators come out of litigation, trained to win. The one…
3 years ago
Caroline Strawson: Trauma, Your Nervous System, and Court
Season 2023 Episode 67
The hearing ends, you get home, and your body will not come down. Days later you are still braced for something. Caroline Strawson says the nervous s…
3 years ago
"Male Victim Jon": Covert Narcissistic Abuse, Alienation, and Rebuilding
Season 2023 Episode 65
Abuse isn't gendered, but the way we talk about it often is, and that leaves a lot of men suffering in silence. In this episode, a survivor who goes …
3 years, 1 month ago
Nicole Biros-Bolton: Strengthen Your Case, Keep Costs Down
Season 2023 Episode 66
The legal system is hard on people who do not have a lawyer, and Nicole Biros-Bolton says so plainly. Her whole focus is closing that gap: showing pe…
3 years, 1 month ago