Podcast Episodes

How to Revive Intimacy After Two Decades of Marriage - with Joy | Ep. 45

My podcast guest this week, Joy, shared that when she first started her relationship (at 17!), she was expecting they would be that disgustingly in-l…

3 years, 2 months ago

How This Husband Supported His Wife to Rewrite Their Sex Life - with Thia's husband, Eugene | Ep. 44

As a husband, are you confused about why non-sexual intimacy (like playful touch and general affection) and physical intimacy have dwindled in your m…

3 years, 2 months ago

Can A Dwindling Sex Life Be Revitalized? How Thia Overcame Sexual Shame And Discovered Orgasm After 40 | Ep. 43

Thia and Eugene are a couple from South Africa who are currently living in the UK with three children. After waiting to have sex until their wedding …

3 years, 2 months ago

Is 'Just Do It' The Only Answer To Low Libido? Unravelling The Truth Behind Women's Sexual Desire- with Amber | Ep. 42

Amber spent years searching for help for her low sexual desire with no answers. She spoke to her university counsellor, her mom, read books and sough…

3 years, 3 months ago

What Does Safety In The Sexual Experience Actually Mean? A Man's Transformative Experience Unveils The Answer - with Erin’s husband, Rob | Ep. 41

In this follow-up conversation to Episode 40, I talk with Erin's husband Rob about his ‘old ways’ of thinking about sex and how his views have drasti…

3 years, 3 months ago

How To Heal From Unwanted Sexual Attention As A Child - With Erin | Ep. 40

I'm always speaking to women and their husbands about the need for safety with physical touch in and out of the sexual experience. In our culture, wo…

3 years, 3 months ago

How To Rewrite Purity Culture Messages About Sex (So You Can Enjoy A Healthy Married Sex Life)- With Keira | Ep. 39

As sexually loud as our culture can be, so many women (and men) experience the silence around helpful information on sex and pleasure as we prepare f…

3 years, 3 months ago

Do You Need To Be Sexually Attracted To Your Husband To Have A Great Sex Life? | Ep. 38

I don't believe that making the choice to explore a sexual connection AND enjoy the experience is connected to physical attraction to your spouse in …

3 years, 3 months ago

What Does Real-Life Sexting Look Like? Revealing My Experience Sending Sexual Text Messages To My Husband! - with John | Ep. 37

In all the ways I’ve opened my life in service of educating the world about healthy sex, this may be the most vulnerable I’ve ever been.  

If pleasu…

3 years, 4 months ago

How To Explain Low Libido To Men (The Real Symptoms Behind Low Sex Drive In Women) | Ep. 36

While I've spent years talking to women about safety, pleasure, equity, communication, and desire for a healthy sexual connection in marriage, it's f…

3 years, 4 months ago