Podcast Episodes

A Husband's Perspective on Overcoming Negative Patterns in a Sexual Relationship - with Julian | Ep. 55

Another husband interview for you! 

Julian describes the start of this relationship with his wife as a girl meets boy Disney movie, but (to his grea…

3 years ago

Sex After 60: How to Talk About Sex After Years of Silence- with Diane | Ep. 54

Struggling to find the importance of sex in marriage after 60? I’m talking to Diane, a teacher and musician in her sixties with three grown children.…

3 years ago

Three Reasons Why Foreplay Doesn't Lead to Better Sex (And What Works Instead) | Ep. 53

Today we’re talking about foreplay and why I don’t think more foreplay, typically prescribed to women with low libido, is the answer to enjoying sex …

3 years ago

For the Husbands Listening: Top Tips To Be a Better Lover | Ep. 52

This episode is for the men listening out there! I often get emails from husbands asking me for advice on what they can do to help their wife enjoy s…

3 years, 1 month ago

The Truth About Spicing Up Your Marriage (And Why It Doesn’t Help With Low Libido) | Ep. 51

Have you heard the advice to "spice things up" to keep your sex life alive? Get kinky, say dirty words, try new positions, watch porn. I tried all of…

3 years, 1 month ago

What Men Struggle to Understand About Low Libido in Women (and what to do to improve their sexual experiences) | Ep. 50

For the first time, I'm offering support to husbands in my Wanting It More program, and I'm learning a lot about why men find it hard to understand (…

3 years, 1 month ago

A Step-By-Step Example of What a Real Married Sexual Experience Looks Like (it's not how it looks in the movies!) | Ep. 49

The examples we're shown of sex in movies and tv are ridiculous! I'm here to tell you that's not what real sex looks or sounds like (these are actors…

3 years, 1 month ago

How To Enjoy Better Sex (and understand low sex drive in women) - with Dr. Laura Froyen | Ep. 48

We're missing out on true joy and connection with our partners and ourselves when we focus on the formulaic goals of sex. It's not all about orgasm! …

3 years, 2 months ago

How To Let Go of Outdated Messages About Sex in Marriage (and what to replace them with for a happy sex life) - with Charles | Ep. 47

I challenge a lot of what society teaches men and women about sex, and sometimes husbands have a hard time with my content. I've been bullied, threat…

3 years, 2 months ago

How to Trust Your Partner Again After Cheating and Porn Addiction (with betrayal trauma expert Michelle Mays) | Ep. 46

Partner betrayal is SO complex compared to other forms of trauma. The lying, manipulation, scapegoating and gaslighting create a cycle of shame of wa…

3 years, 2 months ago