Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchNarcissist or Sex Addict? How a Therapist Reads the Pattern Behind Betrayal
Season 2
If everyone keeps telling you your partner is a narcissist but part of you wonders if this is addiction, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda …
1 month, 3 weeks ago
What Does My Husband's Porn Type Say About Me? Healing the Body-Image Wound of Betrayal
Season 2
For the betrayed partner who saw exactly what kind of porn their husband was watching, and hasn't felt at home in their own body since. Caleb and Ver…
2 months ago
Meeting the Needs Porn Was Meeting: How to Rebuild Real Connection in Recovery
Season 2
If you know why you watch porn but your needs still feel unmet, this episode is the "now what." Caleb and Verlynda walk through how to actually meet …
2 months ago
Why Does Porn Escalate? Tolerance, Arousal Templates, and the Way Back Down
Season 2 Episode 315
If your porn tastes have intensified over time, even into content that disturbs you, this episode explains the mechanism behind the drift: tolerance,…
2 months, 1 week ago
Intrusive Images During Sex After Betrayal: How to Stay Present Instead of Powering Through
Season 2
If trauma images interrupt intimacy since the betrayal, this episode is for you. Verlynda explains why the freeze, lost arousal, and dissociation are…
2 months, 1 week ago
A Relapse Is Not a Reset: Why Counting Days Sets You Up to Binge
Season 2
If one slip keeps turning into a three-day binge, the problem may not be your willpower. It may be your day counter. This episode is for anyone in po…
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Surviving Infidelity When Your Partner Won't Do the Recovery Work
Season 2
You have waited one year, or three, or seven, and the person who broke your trust still isn't really doing the recovery work. This episode is a disce…
2 months, 3 weeks ago
How to Stop Thinking About Porn: The White Bear Effect and Urge Surfing
Season 2 Episode 314
If trying not to think about porn has only made the urges louder, this episode is for you. Caleb, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, explains why w…
2 months, 4 weeks ago
The Repair Most Couples Skip: How to Reconnect After a Fight
Season 2
If your fights technically end but the distance lingers for hours or days, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda unpack why repair, not the abs…
3 months ago
Should I Stay or Leave After an Affair? Why You Don't Have to Decide Yet
Season 2
If you just found out about an affair and everyone is asking you whether you'll stay or go, this episode is the permission you may not know you need.…
3 months ago