Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchCompulsive Lying in Relationships: Why You Lie When You Don't Need To (and How to Stop)
Season 2
For anyone who lies to their partner, even about small things, and hates that they do. Caleb and Verlynda explain why some lies come out before you'v…
1 day, 11 hours ago
Am I Addicted to Porn? The Signs That Actually Matter
Season 2
If you've wondered whether you're actually addicted to porn or just watch a lot, this episode is for you. Caleb Simonyi-Gindele, a Certified Sex Addi…
1 week, 1 day ago
Is Paying for OnlyFans Cheating? Why It Feels Like an Affair to Betrayed Partners
Season 2 Episode 318
You found the messages, the tips, the custom videos, and you were told it was "just porn." Caleb and Verlynda explain why paid, two-way contact with …
2 weeks, 1 day ago
The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why One of You Reaches and the Other Goes Quiet
Season 2
For couples where one of you keeps reaching and the other keeps shutting down, this episode goes underneath the pursue-withdraw pattern to the two at…
4 weeks, 1 day ago
I Ended the Affair. Why Isn't That Enough?
Season 2
For the person who ended the affair and cannot understand why their partner is still devastated, and for the partner watching that relief from inside…
1 month ago
When You Find the Money: Financial Infidelity After Sexual Betrayal
Season 2 Episode 317
For the betrayed partner who found the hidden card, the cash withdrawals, or the monthly transfer, and was surprised by how much the money part hurt.…
1 month ago
Lonely in Marriage: Why You Can Share a Bed and Still Feel Alone
Season 2
If you have ever sat next to someone you love and felt completely alone, this episode is for you. Verlynda and Caleb unpack why loneliness inside a c…
1 month, 1 week ago
Betrayal Trauma or PTSD? Why You Can't Just Get Over It
Season 2
If you have the flashbacks and the hypervigilance and the sleep that will not come, and someone has told you it is time to move on, this episode is f…
1 month, 1 week ago
Why the Betrayer Shuts Down: The Shame Collapse Behind the Silence
Season 2
If you have gone completely blank while your partner asked questions about what you did, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda break down what …
1 month, 2 weeks ago
When Porn Talks Back: AI Companions, Deepfakes, and Why Interactive Porn Hooks Harder
Season 2 Episode 316
AI porn is not one thing: it is four, and the kinds that talk back reach deeper than video ever could. Caleb and Verlynda explain why AI companions h…
1 month, 2 weeks ago