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Ep. 167 - Disappointed in Sex
What is the difference between real sex and our porn binges? The differences might explain why some people confess that real sex is hard and less exciting than our porn world. In this episode Vern …
Published on 5 months, 2 weeks ago
Ep. 166 - Relationships on the Line
What if positive feelings toward your wife were a powerful motivator to move away from porn. In this episode Vern builds on a recent book he read called "Cherish" by Gary Thomas.
If you want to get …
Published on 6 months ago
Ep. 165 - Is Your Door Closing?
Country songs are known for their - "if only I knew then what I know now" regret songs.
In this episode we ask a sobering question - is the door to your marriage closing and share a principle that Ver…
Published on 6 months, 2 weeks ago
Ep. 164 - What Set Me Up for Porn (with Tim Fletcher)
Have you ever wondered what set you up for your struggle with porn? In this interview Vern talks with Tim Fletcher who is an extremely popular Youtube expert on the subject all things trauma and att…
Published on 6 months, 3 weeks ago
Ep. 163 - When Porn Crashes Your Marriage (with Barbara Steffens)
When porn use is disclosed (or found out) in a relationships it often comes with a thudding crash. In this episode expert Barbara Steffens talks through the impact this can have on a woman and step…
Published on 7 months ago
Ep. 162 - Lessons from a Relapse (with Hercule Flambeau)
What can we learn from a relapse? In this episode one of Vern's coaching clients bravely shares what he learned from a recent relapse in the hopes that it can also be instructive to other listeners.…
Published on 7 months, 2 weeks ago
Ep. 161 - Wave Go To's Part 2
In this episode Vern goes back to the topic of dealing with a wave of temptation and craving. In this episode he argues that we need to strengthen our understanding of connection and also introduces…
Published on 7 months, 3 weeks ago
Ep. 160 - Waves of Craving
Do you ever feel that craving hits you like a big wave? In this episode Vern provides hope that the next big wave doesn't need to overwhelm you!
If you want to get access to a host of free recovery r…
Published on 7 months, 4 weeks ago
Ep. 159 - The Hidden Costs of Porn Use
Most of us are tempted to think that our porn use is free. Sure we may not be "paying" for porn but you are paying in ways you many not even realize it. Today we talk about the "hidden costs" of ou…
Published on 8 months, 1 week ago
Ep. 158 - Dial it In
Did you ever start a day feeling "off". Today's podcast is all about "dialling your day" in to maximize the chance of the day going well.
If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resource…
Published on 8 months, 4 weeks ago