Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchWhy You're Fighting... and What to Do
Episode 570
Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing…
5 months ago
Feeling Stuck?? No Closer??
Episode 569
What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you… some… but is still distant? More distant than you would like? Do you have to just acce…
5 months, 1 week ago
Getting Better or Getting Bitter
Episode 568
I often watch people move toward one of two possibilities when a marriage is in trouble: Getting Better or Getting Bitter. One letter difference, b…
5 months, 2 weeks ago
Getting Your Spouse to Agree?? Dangerous!
Episode 567
I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way. So, you set out to "get" your spouse to agree with you. ...And you have now begun …
5 months, 3 weeks ago
The 3 Layers of Connection
Episode 566
Connection is the lifeblood of marriage. In fact, we are wired for deep connection. And while the connection works best within the marriage relatio…
6 months ago
How Steep?
Episode 565
“How hard is it to save my marriage?” the email started. The writer wanted my opinion on whether my System would work. There was a problem, though. …
6 months, 1 week ago
Can It Be Saved?? How to know...
Episode 564
Can you save your marriage?? That is, to be honest, probably the biggest "speed bump" for someone who wants to save their marriage. They wonder if …
6 months, 2 weeks ago
Having Hope
Episode 563
Your spouse thinks it’s hopeless. You may even be wondering that, too. But is it? Is it hopeless? Or is the problem that your spouse is hopeless …
6 months, 3 weeks ago
5 Reasons Why Your Plan is Stalled
Episode 562
Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled? Maybe we should take a look at your plan. You do have a plan, don't you? Let's talk about …
7 months ago
Are You Getting Dragged Under??
Episode 561
Every marriage crisis starts as a crisis of an individual. As it expands into the marriage, the question is whether you, the spouse, will get pulled…
7 months, 1 week ago