Podcast Episodes

Forgiveness - NOT a Blank Check

Episode 548

Just to be clear, I am ALL FOR forgiveness.  I have talked about on the Save The Marriage Podcast and on my Thriveology Podcast. And in a marriage, there are ample opportunities to practice forgivin…

Published on 5 months ago

It's NOT the Event!

Episode 547

I used to notice how often an engaged couple would become so focused on getting married -- the wedding -- that they had a hard time focusing on what the process of being married would be. The reaso…

Published on 5 months, 1 week ago

Big Mistake #3 People Make

Episode 546

There are lots of mistakes people make in their efforts to save their marriage.   This particular mistake is what I consider to be the 3rd biggest.  I hear it in the questions people send me every si…

Published on 5 months, 2 weeks ago

Facing the FACTs of Your Crisis

Episode 545

Sometimes, just a hint or trick will do it.  Maybe you want a trick or hint for an online game.  Or even a trick for a better pancake.  A hint for a better pushup. But hints and tricks won’t work fo…

Published on 5 months, 3 weeks ago

5 Things You Must STOP Doing

Episode 544

I know it hurts.  And I know that the pain, the anger, and the frustration can get you to act in ways that are not helpful. Lots of people are not sure about what TO do (which is why I created the S…

Published on 5 months, 4 weeks ago

Dealing with Apathy

Episode 543

So, what DO you do when apathy strikes?  It might be YOUR apathy.  But more likely, it will be your spouse's apathy. (And it might be both of you!) It just seems there is no emotion, no care, no conc…

Published on 6 months ago

Choosing Your Response

Have you ever been sucked into a situation or argument, then realized your actions were not what you wanted? There is that split second, that pause, where you get to choose your response. Many peop…

Published on 6 months, 2 weeks ago

You Have A Choice

Episode 541

“It’s your choice,” I reassured her.  It was a call I picked up between sessions.  The person told me she had been following my System, but wasn’t sure if she could keep it up.  She wasn’t sure if it…

Published on 6 months, 3 weeks ago

Don't Fall for Bad Advice

Episode 540

I wish this only happened every now and then. Imagine, for a second, that someone is working on saving their marriage.  In this case, they have chosen  to use my System.  And they are making progres…

Published on 6 months, 4 weeks ago

On The Team??

One more argument.  One more struggle.  They sat on my couch, facing each other down as opponents in some contest to... win... well, to be honest, I don't know what they were trying to win.  Because …

Published on 7 months ago