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Back to SearchThe 3 Layers of Connection
Episode 566
Connection is the lifeblood of marriage. In fact, we are wired for deep connection. And while the connection works best within the marriage relationship, it is not singular. Many couples find conn…
Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago
How Steep?
Episode 565
“How hard is it to save my marriage?” the email started. The writer wanted my opinion on whether my System would work. There was a problem, though. The problem was… I had no details about her marit…
Published on 2 months, 3 weeks ago
Can It Be Saved?? How to know...
Episode 564
Can you save your marriage?? That is, to be honest, probably the biggest "speed bump" for someone who wants to save their marriage. They wonder if it is even possible to save their marriage. And t…
Published on 2 months, 4 weeks ago
Having Hope
Episode 563
Your spouse thinks it’s hopeless. You may even be wondering that, too. But is it? Is it hopeless? Or is the problem that your spouse is hopeless — not the situation? Let’s be honest: if you giv…
Published on 3 months ago
5 Reasons Why Your Plan is Stalled
Episode 562
Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled? Maybe we should take a look at your plan. You do have a plan, don't you? Let's talk about 5 reasons your plan (or lack of plan) may be the t…
Published on 3 months, 1 week ago
Are You Getting Dragged Under??
Episode 561
Every marriage crisis starts as a crisis of an individual. As it expands into the marriage, the question is whether you, the spouse, will get pulled under by the crisis. Have you ever tried to save…
Published on 3 months, 2 weeks ago
What Makes A Marriage Great?
Episode 560
What makes a marriage work? What makes a marriage GREAT? Maybe you are trying to save your marriage, and aren't sure if that even matters. Maybe you are trying to aim your marriage in a better dir…
Published on 3 months, 3 weeks ago
Are You Dragging a Spouse to Therapy??
Episode 559
The email said, “I talked my spouse into going to therapy.” Another one asked, “How do I drag my spouse to therapy?” Oof. The first person was proud of the “convincing.” The second person got my resp…
Published on 4 months ago
The Clarity of Crisis
Episode 558
Nothing gets your focus and attention like a crisis. But sometimes, that Crisis Clarity isn't so helpful. Let's backtrack just a minute. What is Crisis Clarity? Just for a moment, let's assume th…
Published on 4 months, 1 week ago
Proving Your Viewpoint (Is Dangerous!)
Episode 557
I can’t count how many times a couple has come to me for “help with our communication skills.” Funny thing is, they communicate just fine. Then why are they stuck in conflict? Why are they disconn…
Published on 4 months, 2 weeks ago