Podcast Episodes

The Problem(s) with Marital Therapy (the Therapist WON'T Tell You)

Episode 550

Let me say it here, in writing:  I am NOT opposed to marital therapy.  I am quite concerned, however, on how marital therapy happens now.  I am conce…

10 months ago

Malice vs. Neglect

Episode 549

Many times, I watch couples caught in a spiral of accusations, each convinced of maliciousness on the part of their spouse.  But I don't think that i…

10 months, 1 week ago

Forgiveness - NOT a Blank Check

Episode 548

Just to be clear, I am ALL FOR forgiveness.  I have talked about on the Save The Marriage Podcast and on my Thriveology Podcast. And in a marriage, …

10 months, 2 weeks ago

It's NOT the Event!

Episode 547

I used to notice how often an engaged couple would become so focused on getting married -- the wedding -- that they had a hard time focusing on what …

10 months, 3 weeks ago

Big Mistake #3 People Make

Episode 546

There are lots of mistakes people make in their efforts to save their marriage.   This particular mistake is what I consider to be the 3rd biggest.  …

10 months, 4 weeks ago

Facing the FACTs of Your Crisis

Episode 545

Sometimes, just a hint or trick will do it.  Maybe you want a trick or hint for an online game.  Or even a trick for a better pancake.  A hint for a …

11 months ago

5 Things You Must STOP Doing

Episode 544

I know it hurts.  And I know that the pain, the anger, and the frustration can get you to act in ways that are not helpful. Lots of people are not s…

11 months, 1 week ago

Dealing with Apathy

Episode 543

So, what DO you do when apathy strikes?  It might be YOUR apathy.  But more likely, it will be your spouse's apathy. (And it might be both of you!) I…

11 months, 2 weeks ago

Choosing Your Response

Have you ever been sucked into a situation or argument, then realized your actions were not what you wanted? There is that split second, that pause,…

11 months, 4 weeks ago

You Have A Choice

Episode 541

“It’s your choice,” I reassured her.  It was a call I picked up between sessions.  The person told me she had been following my System, but wasn’t su…

1 year ago