Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchHealing Childhood Neglect: The Roots of People Pleasing and Narcissism
Season 1 Episode 114
Tony delves into the origins of people pleasers, empaths, highly sensitive individuals, and the emotionally immature, highlighting the similarities t…
1 year, 8 months ago
DARVO, Differentiation and Detangling Difficult Dynamics
Season 1 Episode 113
Tony delves deep into the DARVO technique—Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender—a common manipulation strategy often used by narcissistic or …
1 year, 9 months ago
When Life Just “Lifes” All Over You: A Tale of Resilience and Growth Through Narcissistic Relationships
Season 1 Episode 112
Is it possible to grow while navigating a relationship with a narcissistic or emotionally immature person? Tony returns after a brief hiatus and answ…
1 year, 10 months ago
Death By a Thousand Cuts VII - The Rise of the Emotionally Mature!
Season 1 Episode 111
In the 7th installment of the "Death by a Thousand Cuts" series, Tony Overbay, LMFT, presents a compelling crossover episode between The Virtual Couc…
1 year, 11 months ago
Part 2 - From Grandiose to Vulnerable With a Touch of Emotional Immaturity - Exploring Attachment Styles
Season 1 Episode 110
Part 2 of Tony’s dive into how narcissism and emotional immaturity contribute to the different attachment styles that we show up with in adulthood. C…
1 year, 11 months ago
Transforming or Transgressing? The Thin Line Between Emotional Growth and Weaponization
Season 1 Episode 109
Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the misuse of self-help and philosophical principles by the narcissist and the emotionally immature. Tony uses Stoicism…
2 years ago
From Grandiose to Vulnerable With a Touch of Emotional Immaturity - Exploring Attachment Styles Pt1 of 2
Season 1 Episode 108
Tony zooms in on emotional immaturity, grandiose and vulnerable narcissism, and how they affect relationships. He illustrates these concepts with hyp…
2 years ago
Embracing Popcorn Moments: Finding Strength in Non-Reaction
Season 1 Episode 107
Tony discusses "Popcorn Moments" - those crucial instances where choosing not to react to narcissistic or emotionally immature behavior can be the mo…
2 years ago
Unmasking Family Roles in a Narcissistic/Emotionally Immature Household
Season 1 Episode 106
Tony Overbay, LMFT, dives into the hidden dynamics and assigned roles within dysfunctional and narcissistic family systems. The podcast outlines the …
2 years, 1 month ago
Understanding the Impact of Narcissistic and Emotionally Immature Parents
Season 1 Episode 105
Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the impact of narcissistic or emotionally immature parents on their children. Drawing from a personal letter sent in by…
2 years, 1 month ago