Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchExplaining the “False Self,” aka Why Good People Get Trapped In Bad Relationships
Season 1
Have you ever found yourself trapped in a toxic relationship, unable to break free despite knowing it's unhealthy? You're not alone. In this gripping…
2 years, 1 month ago
Healing Childhood Neglect: The Roots of People Pleasing and Narcissism
Season 1
Tony delves into the origins of people pleasers, empaths, highly sensitive individuals, and the emotionally immature, highlighting the similarities t…
2 years, 2 months ago
DARVO, Differentiation and Detangling Difficult Dynamics
Season 1
Tony delves deep into the DARVO technique—Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender—a common manipulation strategy often used by narcissistic or …
2 years, 2 months ago
When Life Just “Lifes” All Over You: A Tale of Resilience and Growth Through Narcissistic Relationships
Season 1
Is it possible to grow while navigating a relationship with a narcissistic or emotionally immature person? Tony returns after a brief hiatus and answ…
2 years, 3 months ago
Death By a Thousand Cuts VII - The Rise of the Emotionally Mature!
Season 1
In the 7th installment of the "Death by a Thousand Cuts" series, Tony Overbay, LMFT, presents a compelling crossover episode between The Virtual Couc…
2 years, 4 months ago
Part 2 - From Grandiose to Vulnerable With a Touch of Emotional Immaturity - Exploring Attachment Styles
Season 1
Part 2 of Tony’s dive into how narcissism and emotional immaturity contribute to the different attachment styles that we show up with in adulthood. C…
2 years, 5 months ago
Transforming or Transgressing? The Thin Line Between Emotional Growth and Weaponization
Season 1
Tony Overbay, LMFT, discusses the misuse of self-help and philosophical principles by the narcissist and the emotionally immature. Tony uses Stoicism…
2 years, 5 months ago
From Grandiose to Vulnerable With a Touch of Emotional Immaturity - Exploring Attachment Styles Pt1 of 2
Season 1
Tony zooms in on emotional immaturity, grandiose and vulnerable narcissism, and how they affect relationships. He illustrates these concepts with hyp…
2 years, 5 months ago
Embracing Popcorn Moments: Finding Strength in Non-Reaction
Season 1
Tony discusses "Popcorn Moments" - those crucial instances where choosing not to react to narcissistic or emotionally immature behavior can be the mo…
2 years, 6 months ago
Unmasking Family Roles in a Narcissistic/Emotionally Immature Household
Season 1
Tony Overbay, LMFT, dives into the hidden dynamics and assigned roles within dysfunctional and narcissistic family systems. The podcast outlines the …
2 years, 6 months ago