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Script For A Sexual Breakthrough!
Episode 309
EFT (or Emotionally Focused Therapy) walks couples through a de-escalation process, but what sets EFT apart is Stage Two. The second stage of EFT focuses not on “what’s wrong” but on making things ri…
Published on 4 years, 1 month ago
5 Sexual Initiation Styles – Which Turns You On?
Episode 308
How do you initiate in the bedroom? ;) George and Laurie explore (and joke!) about 5 different initiator styles: Seduction, Touch, Emotional Connection, Sex Talk and Power Play.
Which way do you like…
Published on 4 years, 1 month ago
The Yin and Yang of Sexual Energy
Episode 307
Both Yin and Yang are needed for our sex lives to flourish. Where do you fall on the spectrum? Partners in relationships can both be dominant in one type, but we most often see opposites attract.
Wh…
Published on 4 years, 2 months ago
Body Blocks – Moving Past Your Sensory Turnoffs
Episode 306
Touch, smell, sound, taste, vision... Which senses cause you sexual "blocks?" Perhaps touch feels unnatural, painful, or irritating. Maybe you are self-conscious about the way you smell and aren't co…
Published on 4 years, 2 months ago
"Still Face" In Bed – Rethinking Unresponsiveness
Episode 305
Laurie and George discuss the 'still-face' experiments and how that shows up in the bedroom.
Still face – a look on our partner's face that spells d i s c o n n e c t i o n! Based on the seminal…Published on 4 years, 2 months ago
Love and Sex – How They Go Together
Episode 304
Sex and emotions—there’s a delicate balance between the two, an overlap that can’t be ignored. Emotions can enhance sex or inhibit sex, and sex can enhance emotions or inhibit emotions.
Borrowing con…
Published on 4 years, 2 months ago
Sensual Moves from the Movies – 3 Hollywood Tips
Episode 303
What can we learn from Hollywood about balancing sexual 'yin and yang'? In this episode, we'll focus on sensuality as a pure act of giving, and on the importance of balance between the yin (sensualit…
Published on 4 years, 3 months ago
302: How to Ask Your Partner for Variety in the Bedroom
Episode 302
Want to explore new moves with your partner, but don't know how to ask? How can Pursuers approach and encourage their Withdrawer partner to open their mind to new things?
Pursuers can get discouraged…
Published on 4 years, 3 months ago
The #1 Sex Life Destroying Habit & How To Fix It
Episode 301
All of us have struggles communicating, and these struggles often seep into the bedroom. As sex and couples therapists, we often run into couples who avoid talking about sex and sexual needs. Instead…
Published on 4 years, 3 months ago
The Shared Trauma of 9/11
Episode 300
Where were you on 9/11? We all remember. It's been 20 years.
Most of us were stunned, watching the twin towers fall, but George was with the FDNY rushing to Ground Zero, following his training, follo…
Published on 4 years, 3 months ago