Podcast Episodes

Vulnerability Can Spice Up A Boring Marriage

Episode 299

Couples who find themselves stuck in the boring and mundane are often couples who have failed to be vulnerable.

George uses a three-road analogy to explain why some couples remain in mediocracy. The …

Published on 4 years, 3 months ago

Frustrated Pursuers–The Pain of Rejection

Episode 298

We always talk about sexual Pursuers and Withdrawers—those who seek sex and those who withdraw from it.

Because sexual Pursuers are usually the sexual initiator, they are often facing rejection. Over…

Published on 4 years, 3 months ago

When Does Sex Become Compulsive?

Episode 297

It is believed that 3-6% of people in the U.S. struggle with sexual compulsion, all genders can be affected. Sometimes sexual activities become compulsive and lead to damaging pattern in people's rel…

Published on 4 years, 4 months ago

4 Steps To Romantic Sex

Episode 296

We talk a lot about romance outside of the bedroom, but what does a romantic interlude look like? “I wish my partner were more romantic in bed” is a statement we often hear from women. “Are you kiddi…

Published on 4 years, 4 months ago

How To Talk About Sex While Grieving

Episode 295

In this episode, we explore grief through the lens of sexual intimacy... For many couples, sexual intercourse is a safe space where they can be vulnerable, knowing that they can reach out to their pa…

Published on 4 years, 4 months ago

Red HOT—The Color of Attraction

Episode 294

Q&A episode!!! We're answering a bunch of different questions from our listeners about the science of attraction, faking it, and how to bring sexy back!

What does scientific research say about attract…

Published on 4 years, 4 months ago

It Takes Two to Tango!

Episode 293

We often use the word "tango" in EFT in context of the cycles, patterns, or feedback loop that couples can get stuck in. How do you change that dynamic? To break free from the negative cycle you have…

Published on 4 years, 5 months ago

Healing After An Affair

Episode 292

Affairs devastate the trust and connection in a committed relationship… Although healing after an affair is a delicate process and can feel impossible, we believe that recovery and reconnection is po…

Published on 4 years, 5 months ago

What Turns Men On?

Episode 291

We’ve talked about what turns women on… let’s hear about men!! It might not be what you expect...

We’re borrowing from Michael Castleman’s insightful research on male libido. Contrary to popular beli…

Published on 4 years, 5 months ago

Turnons and Turnoffs

Episode 290

All gas, no brakes!! We're using our acronym B.E.S.T. sex to talk about turn ons and turn offs. What works, and what doesn't work. Body, Emotional, Spiritual, and Thoughts... Use B.E.S.T. to be more …

Published on 4 years, 5 months ago