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Red Light; Green Light, Brain Regulation for Better Sex
Episode 329
Keeping connected is easier when we're in green brain - when our brain says we are safe, cared about and even loved - when we can relax, talk, listen with openness. Red brains are escalated, tense, …
Published on 3 years, 9 months ago
Sue Johnson Talks Sex!
Episode 328
FOREPLAY welcomes Emotionally Focused Therapy, founder Dr. Sue Johnson to talk with us about George's driving and the sexual cycle. We laughed together about their early relationship and more serious…
Published on 3 years, 9 months ago
327: Withdrawer Vulnerability for the Win-Win
Episode 327
Listen to this emotional episode to to help the withdrawers in your life. Trained to suppress emotions, withdrawers have decided early in life - it's is not okay to have needs. Their nervous systems …
Published on 3 years, 9 months ago
World of the Withdrawer
Episode 326
Withdrawers in relationship are steeled against the three waves that come for them... first, they do it wrong for their pursuing partner, next it's their fault for withdrawing and third, they really …
Published on 3 years, 9 months ago
325: Getting Pursuer Needs
Episode 325
We want to help pursuers get what they need and then take it into their hearts when it finally comes their way. We know there can be mistrust when a withdrawer at first tries to understand and meet t…
Published on 3 years, 9 months ago
The World of the Pursuer
Episode 324
This is George and Laurie's love letter to those pursuers out there! We see how hard you work. Male or female, sexual or emotional pursuer. We see your good intentions. We see your longing for your p…
Published on 3 years, 10 months ago
Fairplay Before Foreplay
Episode 323
George says the value of my hour is equal to the value of your hour! Laurie says if there are big inequities in responsibility between couples - there's gonna be big problems in the bedroom! Hear G a…
Published on 3 years, 10 months ago
Keeping It Married and Hot!
Episode 322
We promise fidelity in marriage - a promise of an erotic life with our partner. So what gets in the way? Why do people joke that marriage is where sex goes to die? George and Laurie believe facing t…
Published on 3 years, 10 months ago
321: Q&A - Can't Orgasm With Intercourse, Partner Rejection, Accepting Herpes
Episode 321
Our Q&A - What happens when you can’t orgasm during intercourse like you used to? George and Laurie come up with many different ideas about what might be happening and techniques to help our listene…
Published on 3 years, 10 months ago
320: Escape Old Sexual Scripts for More Erotic Freedom - With Dr. James Hawkins
Episode 320
We all have scripts that have been handed down. Our families have told us how we are to behave sexually. Gender roles proscribe the way we should act in the bedroom. Our culture tells us what makes …
Published on 3 years, 11 months ago