Podcast Episodes

How a Man Can Be Sexually Confident

Episode 339

Confidence is essential for a great relationship. But how to you grow in confidence if you've lost it or never had much of it? Confidence is the end result of a string of successes. We discuss moves …

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

Details of Sex

Episode 338

Most of us grew up not talking about sex. But the more detailed you get, the more power you can have to change things. Go play-by-play and have more choice and agency about shaping your experience an…

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

Flattery

Episode 337

Everyone wants to feel desired certainly.

But the research shows that for women - being desired, hearing their partner's verbal admiration and open "want" - is very important to their turn on. When me…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Intimate Touch

Episode 336

Touch is vital for intimate communication. We learn so much with touch - pleasure, safety, exploration and curiosity! So often we don’t put it into words and then we find ourselves in intimate relati…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Good-Enough Responding To Stay Sexually Attached

Episode 335

We’re talking about good-enough responding - responding to our partner in ways that keep us connected even when we disappoint them. Think about when a withdrawer finally comes forward; while their pu…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Spicing Things Up

Episode 334

Wanna spice it up? What have you fantasized about doing? It takes vulnerability to tell each other about ideas for novelty and change. Are you willing to risk? Laurie and George talk about how couple…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Something Better Than Nothing?

Episode 333

Is it worth it to accept something that your partner wants to give you sexually instead of holding out for what you really want? Is something better than nothing? Laurie and George use a tried and tr…

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago

332: Laurie invites her girlfriends for a private talk!

Episode 332

Would you just love to go for a walk with Laurie and talk about sex? Well, on this episode, L invites all of her girlfriends out there to talk about all the stuff - hacks to conquer menopause, how to…

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago

April 2022 Q&A

Episode 331

The million dollar question! (for pursuers) how do you get someone to pursue their own pleasure. In our Q&A, Laurie and George see a reader’s point. For so many  reasons it works better when your par…

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago

330: Six Modes of Sex

Episode 330

  Lovemaking, maintenance sex, icebreaker sex, the 5-minute window, RED HOT sex, and scheduled sex - all have their merits. Compliments of our friends' blog @thehappymarriageau, George and Laurie r…

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago