Podcast Episodes

{REPLAY} Mark Vatsaas Helps Parents Feel Seen and Heard

It's hard to write a summary of this episode because it is so rich with goodness.

Mark Vatsaas is a dad and parent coach for parents of kids with challenging behaviors.  He's compassionate, clear, art…

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

{REPLAY} How Self-Compassion Changes Things for This Mom (interview with a Club member)

I'm introducing you to one more amazing mom this week (I introduced you to another amazing mom Thursday! Go check it out!)

This mom has given me the privilege of watching some pretty remarkable transf…

Published on 3 years, 6 months ago

{REPLAY} When you Kid's Behavior Doesn't Change- This Helps (interview with a Club member)

Today is your lucky day because you get to meet a pretty awesome mom.

A mom who might be a little like you- even if you're a grandma or a dad or a foster parent or a big sister or whoever you are.

A mo…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Ep. 82: Scaffolding is a Form of Co-Regulation

Season 1 Episode 82

What does my child need for their success to be inevitable?

If I wanted to paint the top of a 20 foot wall, I’d rent some scaffolding.  Scaffolding makes the floor higher and would get me as close to …

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Ep. 81: What Does Co-Regulation Really Look Like?

Season 1 Episode 81

There’s a lot of confusion about what co-regulation really is.  Parents often say to me something like “OK, I get it- I’m supposed to give co-regulation instead of a consequence.  But- what does that…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

{BONUS} What Behavior Really Is Masterclass

A Neuroscience Based Paradigm Shift for understanding...and changing...children's big, baffling behaviors!

What if I could de-code all your child's baffling behaviors for you, and simplify the problem…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

Ep. 80: What To Do After We Mess Up (Rupture Repair!)

Season 1 Episode 80

Our kids don’t need us to be perfect.  Not only do they not need us to be perfect, it would actually be bad for them if we were.  

In fact, research shows parents are in attunement with their children…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

REPLAY: Bonnie Badenoch on Healing Attachment with Safety and Presence

Today we wrap up this month's focus on attachment with my dear mentor and friend, Bonnie Badenoch.  

Bonnie Badenoch, PhD, LMFT is a thought-leader in the relational neurosciences.  When I think about…

Published on 3 years, 7 months ago

REPLAY: How Attachment Changes

Part 6 of 6 in the June series on attachment!

The part you've probably been waiting for: how does attachment change?

 If you haven't caught the previous five episodes in this series on attachment, be s…

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago

REPLAY: The Tragedy of Disorganized Attachment

***Possible Trigger Warning***

Learning about disorganized attachment might feel overwhelming and bring up uncomfortable feelings.  Listen in a place and at a time you can take breaks and seek regulat…

Published on 3 years, 8 months ago