Podcast Episodes

how long will you let them hurt you?

I used to love toxicity. I loved when I didn't get a text back because I was being ignored or punished. I loved hearing my partner beg me to stay.

isn't love supposed to be something you can feel? or…

Published on 10 months ago

don’t let others think for you

we all care what other people think. it's inevitable. we want to fit in, we want to feel like we belong. but maybe taking someone's opinion as fact is depriving you from joy you never knew existed.

if…

Published on 10 months ago

silence is where you face your fear

I used to be the first person to find a distraction from my feelings. after years of feeling worse and worse about myself and my relationships, I ended up figuring out that I just needed to face the …

Published on 10 months, 1 week ago

fear is a feeling, not a stop sign

the one thing you can count on in life is that you will feel uncertain. there will be moments where you won't know if the decision you're making is the right one. however, not making a decision is al…

Published on 10 months, 2 weeks ago

they’re not confused, they’re leading you on

if you feel like someone is playing with your emotions, there's a good chance your gut is right. I've learned that it isn't worth waiting for others, take initiative and if it isn't reciprocated, kee…

Published on 10 months, 2 weeks ago

why most people never see change

real change happens over years, not months. be patient, find things that feel easy for you to do. the more momentum you can build in your life, the more evidence you'll have that you're doing somethi…

Published on 10 months, 3 weeks ago

stop holding your future hostage

you don't have to know your life path, A to Z. all that matters is that you're actively putting yourself in a place to learn and be a better person. Focus on you, focus on learning things in your lif…

Published on 10 months, 3 weeks ago

there’s nothing wrong with choosing you

there's a healthy balance between making choices for yourself and keeping others in mind. sometimes, you have to take the reigns yourself.

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Published on 10 months, 3 weeks ago

the truth about situationships

listen to how you feel. don't let yourself be gaslit into thinking things are fine when they are not. it's a good sign it's not for you. https://linktr.ee/thezurkieshow

Published on 10 months, 3 weeks ago

this is why you never end up changing

lower the threshold, don't expect so much out of yourself. focus on building momentum over trying to impress others. people who are as smart as you have figured it out, why can't it be you? sending y…

Published on 10 months, 3 weeks ago