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Back to SearchWhat Really Changes "Down There" After Childbirth and Menopause
Season 2 Episode 66
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Why does sex feel different after having kids — or in perimenopause and midlife? Flatter, harder, painful, or just... off?
You're not …
2 months, 1 week ago
Stop Being Quiet in Bed — It's Weird (Here's Why Perfection Kills Pleasure)
Season 2 Episode 65
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What if the biggest mood killer in your sex life isn't lack of desire, time, or chemistry—but the pressure to be perfect?
In this epis…
2 months, 2 weeks ago
You're Secretly Sabotaging Your Sex Life (And You Don't Even Know It)
Season 2 Episode 64
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Welcome to Season 2! We're kicking things off with a hard truth: If sex feels awkward, disconnected, or just plain off, you might be …
2 months, 3 weeks ago
Season Preview: Make 2026 Your Best Year Together
Season 2 Episode 63
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Is your relationship feeling more like roommates than romantic partners? You're not alone—and you're not stuck.
In this episode, I'm w…
3 months ago
When Sex Brings Up Shutdown, Tears, or Rushing, What's Actually Happening
Season 1 Episode 62
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Have you ever had sex end in shutdown, rushing, or unexpected emotion, and neither of you knew what just happened?
In this intimate ep…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
Why You Feel Unchosen, Unsexy, and Alone (Even in a Good Relationship)
Season 1 Episode 61
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Why do you feel unchosen, unsexy, and alone, even when your relationship looks "fine"?
If you're the one always initiating hard conver…
3 months, 3 weeks ago
Fair Play, Real Life: How We Manage the Mental Load as a Couple
Season 1 Episode 60
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How do you actually share the mental load without constant fighting, resentment, or feeling like you’re doing it all?
This is part 3 o…
3 months, 4 weeks ago
How to Talk About the Mental Load Without Starting a Fight
Season 1 Episode 59
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If talking about the mental load already feels like walking into a fight, this episode is for you.
Because most mental load conversati…
4 months ago
Mental Load 101: Why You're Fighting More... and Having Sex Less
Season 1 Episode 58
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If the two of you feel like you're living in the same house but carrying completely different worlds, this episode will hit home.
Welc…
4 months, 1 week ago
Why Porn Feels Easier Than Intimacy (And What It's Really Costing You)
Season 1 Episode 57
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Porn often feels like the easier option — no pressure, no rejection, no emotional work. But when it becomes your go-to outlet, it can…
4 months, 2 weeks ago