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Season 3 Episode 87
Being able to analyze conflict is one of the most important conflict competencies. You will want to know what's really going on, underneath the issue…
1 year, 2 months ago
86 What's the right age for repairing a relationship?
Season 3 Episode 86
Tyson and I are grateful to have Conflict Owners Manual listeners ranging in age from teen to seniors. Who is too young and who is too old to improve…
1 year, 2 months ago
85 How to stay non-defensive when verbally attacked
Season 3 Episode 85
When others verbally attack you, it's hard to keep your cool. Three common but ineffective arguments an opponent might use against you are:
1. ad hom…
1 year, 2 months ago
84 What conflict competencies might have helped my 40 year old self?
Season 3 Episode 84
Some conflict competencies are subtle and invisible to others. Two skills start as small differences in your approach to conflict that lead to a big …
1 year, 2 months ago
83 What do you fear in conflict?
Season 3 Episode 83
What would your situation look like if you weren't afraid? Fear is a 360 degree driver of conflict, from starting conflict to escalation, to creating…
1 year, 2 months ago
82 What conflict competencies would you wish for your 30-year-old self?
Season 3 Episode 82
No one is born conflict competent. Over time, we learn complex communication. The quality of our relationships improves. In this second take on what …
1 year, 2 months ago
81 How conflict competence impacts loneliness for the better
Season 3 Episode 81
Conflict competence improves quality of relationships. Building community improves quality of life. In this era of loneliness, where friends are so i…
1 year, 3 months ago
80 What conflict competencies would you wish for your 20-year-old self?
Season 3 Episode 80
No one is born conflict competent. Babies don't negotiate, they demand. Over time, we grow up and learn people skills. The quality of our relationshi…
1 year, 3 months ago
79 Do you and your roommates (or family) need a conflict management plan?
Season 3 Episode 79
If you find yourself sharing space, whether with a partner, roommate, family, or stranger, it's a good idea to agree with them on a conflict manageme…
1 year, 3 months ago
78 How do you use and practice conflict analysis?
Season 3 Episode 78
The conflict competency I use most often is conflict analysis. You want to answer the right question and resolve the correct conflict, which means an…
1 year, 3 months ago