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Back to SearchWhat is your conflict trying to tell you? #147
Season 8 Episode 147
Conflicts have important information for you. When you're in conflict, you think about how the other person is wrong, or hurtful or disappointing etc…
2 months, 1 week ago
Three approaches to owning your conflicts 146
Season 8 Episode 146
We talk about owning your conflict, but what does it mean to 'own' your conflict? Consider these three meanings of ownership: 1. personal, 2. interpe…
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Can you be impartial while taking a side? #145
Season 8 Episode 145
Tyson surprised Deborah with a question: Can someone pick a side in a conflict, but then be impartial in the conflict?
We discuss the differences in …
2 months, 3 weeks ago
When someone won't listen to you, do this. #144
Season 8 Episode 144
Sometimes, you mean well but the other person in the conflict just won't hear you. Maybe you want to talk, even to apologize, but they've cut you off…
3 months ago
Three questions when someone disappoints you 143
Season 8 Episode 143
If you are disappointed in someone, it's tempting to blame them for not meeting your expectations. The conflict competent response is to ask yourself…
3 months, 1 week ago
Three ways to handle hurt feelings in conflict 142
Season 8 Episode 142
Feelings are often hurt in conflict, and it's tempting to blame the other person for hurting you. Whether you are 100% at fault for the conflict or d…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
Two small shifts that make big conflict improvements 141
Season 8 Episode 141
There are two parts to your conflict competence practice; 1. your actions and 2. your attitude. If you change one of them, you will affect the other.…
3 months, 3 weeks ago
The hidden superpower of conflict competence 140
Season 7 Episode 140
You're building conflict competencies to use in conflicts. But, these conflict skills actually apply every place you go, with everyone you meet, in e…
3 months, 4 weeks ago
How to make allies out of people who disagree with you #139
Season 7 Episode 139
Are you finding it hard to be with people whose personalities and perspectives are different than yours? Maybe your inner conflict holds you back, an…
4 months ago
Why you shouldn't have that hard conversation 138
Season 6 Episode 138
Disagreements on divisive topics are everywhere now. Perhaps you've been told that you should have conversations that feel hard, uncomfortable, or aw…
4 months, 1 week ago