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Back to Search17 Are disappointed expectations causing your conflicts?
Season 1 Episode 17
When you expect something and it doesn't happen, who's to blame? What better ways are there to have your expectations met to your satisfaction? We di…
1 year, 10 months ago
16 Does bias influence your decision making in conflict?
Season 1 Episode 16
Conflict drops a lot of decisions on you, and there's no perfect decision that guarantees the outcome you prefer. Your decisions in conflict depend o…
1 year, 10 months ago
15 Has that conflict really ended your relationship?
Season 1 Episode 15
When does a relationship end? At the breakup over a conflict? Or when you stop reliving it in your mind? After the breakup, do you go over what happe…
1 year, 10 months ago
14 How to get your conflict competence to rise
Season 1 Episode 14
Taking emotional risks in conflict is like a leavening agent that helps your conflict competence rise. In this mini-cast, Deborah discusses how you c…
1 year, 10 months ago
13 What common expressions are conflict competent?
Season 1 Episode 13
Words we use show others how we view the world. If common expressions use fighting and battle language, what does that say about our mindset, and wha…
1 year, 10 months ago
12 Try this easy exercise to expand your conflict competence
Season 1 Episode 11
There isn't one perfect way to get the result you want in a conflict, so it's helpful to have options. Here's an exercise that can give you more stra…
1 year, 11 months ago
11 What is Dialogue in conflict?
Season 1 Episode 11
Dial down conflict heat with Dialogue as a process. When high emotion makes dialogue for resolution seem impossible, try process Dialogue. Deborah an…
1 year, 11 months ago
10 How does integrating ideas help manage conflict?
Season 1 Episode 10
Integrating subjective and objective ideas helps the conflict analysis of your thinking, your assumptions, the context, and other variables that affe…
1 year, 11 months ago
9 Conflict when the goals are the same
Season 1 Episode 9
Even when you agree on almost everything, you can still have conflict over the details. You may all want the same thing and disagree over how to acco…
1 year, 11 months ago
8 What is a conflict analysis?
Season 1 Episode 8
Analyzing your conflict ensures you answer the right question and solve the right problem. Deborah gives tips for conducting your conflict analysis.
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1 year, 11 months ago