Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchTaking a Sex "Time Out" in a Relationship: Helpful Reset or Risky Move?
Season 4 Episode 7
Taking a break from sex while in a relationship can feel scary, relieving, confusing—or all three at once. In this episode, we explore the idea of a …
6 months, 3 weeks ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 4- Safety and Risk-Aware Play
Season 4 Episode 6
Pain can be powerful, erotic, and deeply connecting — but only when it's grounded in safety, consent, and awareness. In this fourth episode of Findin…
7 months ago
Valentine's Day Ideas When You've Just Started Dating
Season 4 Episode 5
Valentine's Day can feel awkward when you've just started dating. Is a card too much? Is doing nothing a red flag? And does the holiday automatically…
7 months, 1 week ago
Advocating for Your Sexual Health in Medical Spaces
Season 4 Episode 4
Advocating for your sexual health in a medical setting shouldn't feel scary — but for many of us, it does. In this episode, we break down how to spea…
7 months, 2 weeks ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 3- Different Types of Pain Play
Season 4 Episode 3
Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure.
In this third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pa…
7 months, 3 weeks ago
Dating a Trans Person- Understanding Gender Identity vs. Sexual Orientation
Season 4 Episode 2
What does it actually mean to date a trans person—and how is gender identity different from sexual orientation?
In this episode of the Dildo Whispere…
8 months ago
A Conversation About Consent- ENCORE
Season 4 Episode 1
Your Dildo Whisperer is still dealing with her cross country move. Which means this week's episode is an encore episode! Enjoy this encore and we wil…
8 months, 1 week ago
Year In Review
Season 3 Episode 50
The Dildo Whisperer is wrapping up the 3rd season of the show with a look back at Romaine and Ajay's top 3 episodes of 2025. This is a fun look back …
8 months, 3 weeks ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 2 — Consent, Communication & Negotiation
Season 3 Episode 49
In part 2 of our Finding Pleasure in Pain series we will focus on why pain can be an erotic, intimate, empowering — and deeply pleasurable part of se…
9 months ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain Series: Part 1- Understanding Kink, Sensation, and Consent
Season 3 Episode 48
Why do some people find pleasure in pain? In this educational, sex-positive series, we are going to explore the science and psychology behind erotic …
9 months, 1 week ago