Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchCuckolding — Fantasy, Fetish, and the Psychology Behind It
Season 4 Episode 15
Cuckolding is one of the most misunderstood fantasies in modern sexuality. Is it about humiliation? Power? Trust? Jealousy? In this episode of The Di…
2 months, 1 week ago
Types: Are the People We're Attracted To Based on Preference… or Prejudice?
Season 4 Episode 14
We all say we have a "type" — but where does that type come from? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we explore the difference between personal …
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Breasts, Beer, and Body Image: Hooters, Twin Peaks, and the Sexualization Debate
Season 4 Episode 13
In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we talk about Hooters, Twin Peaks, and other "breastaurant" style restaurants — and the bigger conversation t…
2 months, 3 weeks ago
Getting Comfortable: What Happens When We "Let Ourselves Go" in Relationships?
Season 4 Episode 12
What does it really mean when people say someone has "let themselves go" in a relationship? In this episode, we unpack the complicated mix of comfort…
3 months ago
Sexual History & Dating — Does Your Number of Previous Partners Matter?
Season 4 Episode 11
Does your number of previous partners matter when it comes to dating? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we talk about body count, sexual histor…
3 months, 1 week ago
Music To Bang To- ENCORE
Season 4 Episode 10
In this encore episode- One of our listeners sent in a topic idea and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss how music can enhance the sexual…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain – Part 6 Aftercare: Physical and Emotional Care After Pain Play
Season 4 Episode 9
Aftercare is not optional—it's part of the play.
In Part 5 of the Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we're talking about aftercare: the physical and em…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 5- What It Means Emotionally
Season 4 Episode 8
Pain doesn't just live in the body—it can move emotions, unlock release, and create powerful moments of connection. In this episode of Finding Pleasu…
3 months, 3 weeks ago
Taking a Sex "Time Out" in a Relationship: Helpful Reset or Risky Move?
Season 4 Episode 7
Taking a break from sex while in a relationship can feel scary, relieving, confusing—or all three at once. In this episode, we explore the idea of a …
4 months ago
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 4- Safety and Risk-Aware Play
Season 4 Episode 6
Pain can be powerful, erotic, and deeply connecting — but only when it's grounded in safety, consent, and awareness. In this fourth episode of Findin…
4 months, 1 week ago