Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchEnneagram Subtypes 401: The 27 Instincts & Your Three-Layer Cake
Season 3 Episode 125
Kelly and Damon kick off a brand-new series on Enneagram subtypes, the instinctual variants that turn 9 core types into 27 flavors. This is the deep …
9 months ago
Lost in Translation: What Type 9 Hears When You Say “Be Assertive”
Season 3 Episode 124
Kelly and Damon unpack how a Type 9 processes “Be assertive” and why it can feel like a threat to calm rather than an invitation to contribute. Toget…
9 months, 1 week ago
Lost in Translation: What a Type 8 hears when you say “Calm down.”
Season 3 Episode 123
When you tell an Eight “calm down,” they often hear “you’re too much,” “you’re out of control,” or “I’m censoring you.”
In this episode Kelly and Dam…
9 months, 2 weeks ago
Lost in Translation: What a Type 7 Hears When You Say “Be Serious.”
Season 3 Episode 122
This week we unpack Enneagram Sevens, the joy-bringers who can feel shut down when they hear, “Can you just be serious?” Kelly explains how that land…
9 months, 3 weeks ago
Lost in Translation: What Type 6's hear when you say "Don’t worry about it".
Season 3 Episode 121
Damon & Kelly break down how well-meant reassurances land for Enneagram Sixes (The Loyalists). When you say “Don’t worry” or “It’s fine,” a 6 often h…
9 months, 4 weeks ago
Lost in Translation: Type 5 “We Need to Talk”. Without the Ambush!”
Season 3 Episode 120
Type Fives value space, clarity, and time to think, so “We need to talk” can sound like “prepare to be emotionally mugged.” In this Lost in Translati…
10 months ago
Lost in Translation: What Type 4 Hears in Your Silence
Season 3 Episode 119
In this episode of Beyond Your Number, Damon and Kelly unpack how silence, quick responses, or even well-intentioned pauses can land painfully with a…
10 months, 1 week ago
Lost in Translation: What Type 3's Actually Hear
Season 3 Episode 118
Threes often hear praise like “you’ve got it all together” as “you’re a fraud.” In this episode, Damon and Kelly unpack how seemingly harmless commen…
10 months, 2 weeks ago
Lost in Translation: How to Say “No”, without wounding a Type 2
Season 3 Episode 117
We’re back from break and digging into Type 2 (The Helper) in our Lost in Translation series. What you mean as a simple boundary,“Thanks, I’m good”,c…
10 months, 3 weeks ago
Classic Replay: Understanding the Enneagram Triads (Gut, Heart, Head)
Season 3 Episode 116
We’re dipping back into the archive with a foundation episode on the Triads—Gut (8-9-1), Heart (2-3-4), and Head (5-6-7). Damon and Kelly break down …
11 months ago