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Emotional Labor Isn't The Problem
Season 4 Episode 76
Emotional labor isn't the problem guys. This term is so widely misused it's nuts. Here's who uses it and why.
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2 years, 2 months ago
"Nothing Is Only Good" AKA The Anxious Mantra
Season 4 Episode 75
Many clients I see are unaware that they are anxious, which is why I write so many posts about how to recognize your anxiety. As I’ve often discussed…
2 years, 2 months ago
If You Can't Do Scary Things For You... Do Them For Your Kids!
Season 4 Episode 74
Many people can't put themselves out there and do scary things... until they figure out a motivator that makes sense to them. For many parents, this …
2 years, 2 months ago
Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Only Friend
Season 4 Episode 72
Some people have very few social relationships and almost nobody, or truly nobody, that they feel close to except for their partner (and kids). Here'…
2 years, 2 months ago
"Am I Bad In Bed If My Wife Doesn't Want Sex Anymore?"
Season 4 Episode 71
This episode dispels the myth that you are the sole reason that she doesn't like sex with you anymore. Here is a pep talk with concrete points to try…
2 years, 2 months ago
Expectations... How They Mess Up Your Life
Season 4 Episode 70
Expectations steal your joy and sabotage your relationships. In this episode, I discuss how unrealistic expectations and comparison points hurt your …
2 years, 2 months ago
Die With Zero... A Transformative Book For Many At Midlife!
Season 4 Episode 68
A book review of Bill Perkins' Die With Zero! Really interesting philosophically, and dovetails well with a lot of the internal work my clients do ev…
2 years, 2 months ago
What Was Your Mom Like At Your Wife's Age?
Season 4 Episode 67
A helpful reframe for empathy! What was your mom like at the age that you're expecting your wife to act so sexual, exciting, and dynamic? Probably no…
2 years, 2 months ago
People ALWAYS Have Dating Options... Hitting The Wall Is A Myth
Season 4 Episode 66
There are ALWAYS dating options! Here's what the internet tells you and why it's wrong.
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2 years, 2 months ago
The CCF Method For Reframing Your Marital Issues
Season 4 Episode 64
I did a little video about this and I'm expanding on it in this episode... presenting the CCF (Child, Coworker, Friend) Reframe for how to think abou…
2 years, 2 months ago