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Each Partner Doing What They Are Best At Separately.... The Commonsensical Approach To Marriage That Has Fallen From Favor
Season 4 Episode 90
It used to be that each spouse doing what they were best at was an accepted and even extolled strategy. Now, there is an idea that the man needs to b…
2 years, 1 month ago
When You Don't Notice Your Partner Isn't A Good Fit Because Of Other Variables
Season 4 Episode 88
If your needs are being met by other people/activities during dating, you may not realize that your partner isn't as good of a fit as you imagined! T…
2 years, 1 month ago
"Good Mom" And "Good Wife" Are Often Opposite
Season 4 Episode 87
There's a huge difference between how a woman acts before and after kids, which is evolutionarily mediated! Listen to ensure you aren't expecting con…
2 years, 1 month ago
How Porn Influences How You Treat Your Wife
Season 4 Episode 86
I’ve discussed in many places that porn use is not helpful for marriage, particularly in cases where there is a libido disparity and partners are try…
2 years, 1 month ago
Should You Wait To Leave Your Marriage Until The Kids Are Out Of The House?
Season 4 Episode 84
Many clients of both genders struggle with the decision of whether to get divorced before or after the kids leave home. There are pros and cons to ea…
2 years, 1 month ago
Which Guys Hate The Idea Of Responsive Desire?
Season 4 Episode 83
Most men find it very useful to learn about responsive desire, which means needing to be touched in order to get excited. This is the kind of desire …
2 years, 1 month ago
Little Ways To Connect With Your Partner Every Day
Season 4 Episode 82
So many people who grew up in dysfunctional homes have no idea how to connect to their partners in a playful and sweet way without doing some huge ge…
2 years, 1 month ago
When You Are Wealthy, The Only Meaningful Currency Is Time
Season 4 Episode 80
In my wealthiest clients, the only metric that makes sense of what is meaningful is time. Since you can't buy more time, here are ways people try to …
2 years, 1 month ago
Remember, Your Life Would Go On Even If A Bad Thing Happened
Season 4 Episode 79
Many very anxious people are consumed with fear of their own potential devastation or inability to cope if a bad thing were to happen to them. Some e…
2 years, 1 month ago
The Real Compatibility: Having The Same Idea Of How Important The Relationship Is
Season 4 Episode 78
This is stuff that securely attached people know from their upbringings and the rest of us have to learn. Can be a game changing paradigm shift!
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2 years, 1 month ago