Podcast Episodes

Enemies, Victims, or....

Episode 469

Roles.  We all have them.  We all play them. Some are "identity roles."  They identify us in the role.  For example, I am "son," "father," "brother,…

2 years, 11 months ago

Dragged Under

Episode 468

Every marriage crisis starts as a crisis of an individual.  As it expands into the marriage, the question is whether you, the spouse, will get pulled…

2 years, 11 months ago

4 Failing Fears

Episode 467

You've decided to save your marriage. You start the process, maybe even make some progress. Then, BAM!  You hit a wall. A wall of fear.  Fears that…

2 years, 11 months ago

It Isn't Just About Romance

Episode 466

Since Valentine's Day is passed and the hearts have come down in the stores (except in the clearance area), we can face a reality that confuses many …

3 years ago

Is a Marriage Intensive for You?

Episode 465

Recently, more and more people have been asking about "Marriage Intensives."  If you aren't familiar, these are often week-end (and sometimes week-lo…

3 years ago

The Marriage Murdering Myth

There are lots of myths about marriage.  But there is one myth that comes up over and over.  In fact, the trap for this myth is set at the very early…

3 years ago

Sharing Power

Episode 463

It’s a partnership.  Right? Right? Well, in any partnership, there has to be a way to make decisions.  And how a couple makes decisions reveals how t…

3 years, 1 month ago

Helping or Hurting??

Episode 462

You've been working on saving your marriage... and you aren't seeing the traction you want.  Or maybe is just isn't moving as fast as you would like.…

3 years, 1 month ago

Aha Moment or Slow Turn-Around?

Episode 461

You’ve been following my 4 C’s to work on the 3 C’s of saving your marriage, right?  (Hang with me if that seems like gibberish — just me trying to m…

3 years, 2 months ago

Staying Together for the Wrong Reasons??

Episode 460

I’ve been answering listeners’ questions on the Save The Marriage Podcast.  And in this episode, I pull together a repeating question about “Should w…

3 years, 2 months ago