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Back to SearchDealing with Disrespect and Boundaries
Episode 490
"A" has been trying to set boundaries with her husband. Trying to get the treatment she deserves. Trying to get the relationship to a healthy spot.…
2 years, 2 months ago
Why You Can't Force Connection
Episode 489
Surely you can convince your spouse to work on your marriage… right? Yes, your marriage is in crisis. But if you say the right thing… or say it in …
2 years, 2 months ago
Dealing with a Heavy Holiday -- in the midst of a marriage crisis
Episode 488
When life is hard, Holidays can feel heavy. When there is a marriage crisis, it can be tough to muster the energy to even move forward — especially …
2 years, 3 months ago
How the Created Past Hurts Your Marriage
Episode 487
Sounds so philosophical, doesn't it? Your "created past." What is that? We all do it. We remember things based on our emotional state, not on wha…
2 years, 3 months ago
Are things improving?? How can you tell??
Episode 486
Phil asked, "How do you know you are making progress?" And perhaps fearing that the signs point the other way, he also asked, "how long is long enou…
2 years, 3 months ago
Take These 3 Steps To Save Your Marriage
Episode 485
You want to save your marriage (or you wouldn't be here, right??). But you may not know what to do. Most people don't. I mean, let's face it: most …
2 years, 3 months ago
When Your Spouse Can't See A Way Forward -- Why
Episode 484
We all have limiting beliefs. You... me... and your spouse! I always work to change my limiting beliefs. You are probably doing the same. But you…
2 years, 4 months ago
The Road to Divorce: 8 Stops
Episode 483
Just to be clear, people don't simply end up divorced. They don't go from a loving, connected marriage to a painful, hurting divorce. There are som…
2 years, 4 months ago
The 7 Stages of Disconnection
Episode 482
The shift from connection to disconnection happens when people (inadvertently) hit the Pause Button on their marriage. It isn't ill-intended. It usua…
2 years, 4 months ago
Why You Aren't Getting Started
Episode 481
Many people tell me how they WANT to save their marriage (they really, really do), but they aren't DOING it. They can't seem to get started with the…
2 years, 5 months ago