Podcast Episodes
Back to SearchQ&A 1 Exploring Self-Worth, Trust in New Relationships, Levels of Intimacy and "Is My Picker Broken?"
Season 1 Episode 38
Tony answers questions from his private Facebook group on everything from discovering your self-worth post-narcissism, how you can trust again in you…
3 years, 7 months ago
So Now You Know About Narcissism, Who Can You Tell? Should You Tell? w/Bonus Triangulation
Season 1 Episode 37
Explaining your relationship to the narcissist or emotionally immature person, people, or entity in your life to those around you can be incredibly v…
3 years, 7 months ago
Ross Rosenberg, Author of The Human Magnet Syndrome - From Self-Love Deficit to Self-Love Abundance
Season 1 Episode 36
Tony welcomes Ross Rosenberg, author of the best-selling book “The Human Magnet Syndrom - The Codependent Narcissist Trap,” https://www.amazon.com/Hu…
3 years, 8 months ago
Parenting, Co-Parenting and the Role of Validation with a Narcissist
Season 1 Episode 35
Tony tackles the topic of co-parenting with a narcissist or emotionally immature spouse/ex-spouse. He discusses the significance of a child's relianc…
3 years, 8 months ago
Emotionally Liberated or Defeatedly Discarded? Difficulties in Moving on from a Narcissist
Season 1 Episode 34
The pain of the narcissistic "discard" can at times feel unbearable. And for many, it seems that the harder you work to try and make sense of the dis…
3 years, 9 months ago
Does the Narcissist REALLY Believe What They're Saying? Understanding the Role of Confabulation in Gaslighting
Season 1 Episode 33
If you've ever been on the receiving end of gaslighting, you've probably wondered "does this person honestly believe what they are saying right now? …
3 years, 9 months ago
Coercion, Carrots and Sticks - All Get the Donkey to Move But at What Cost?
Season 1 Episode 32
Tony takes excerpts from David Foster Wallace's "This Is Water," Kenyon College commencement speech to discuss the need to step outside of our own eg…
3 years, 10 months ago
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Season 1 Episode 31
Tony tackles the question he receives the most from listeners, should I stay or should I go? And if I decide to go, when? Plus he discusses what the …
3 years, 10 months ago
The Cure for the Pathological Loneliness of the Narcissistic Discard - Moving from Self-Love Deficit to Abundance
Season 1 Episode 30
Ending your relationship with a narcissist can leave one feeling discarded, less than, and what Ross Rosenberg, author of “Human Magnet Syndrome” cal…
3 years, 10 months ago
Isolating, Monitoring and Manipulation, Oh My! Coercive Control In the Narcissistic Relationship
Season 1 Episode 29
Tony Overbay, LMFT, defines "Coercive Control," as more than domestic violence. Courts across the country are now including isolation, monitoring one…
3 years, 11 months ago