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Resentment Is a Boundary Problem (And It’s Not What You Think)
Episode 147
If you’ve been feeling resentful in your open relationship, this episode is for you.
In Episode 147 of Nope, We’re Not Monogamous, I break down why re…
2 months, 3 weeks ago
Poly Agony: The Mistakes, Repair, and Reality of Raising Kids While Open with Candace Sogren
Episode 146
Non-monogamy isn’t just more love. It’s more feelings, more conversations, and sometimes… a lot more processing.
In this episode, I’m sitting down wit…
3 months ago
Needs vs Wants in Non-Monogamy: There’s No Prize for Needing Less EP.145
Episode 145
Struggling to tell the difference between needs vs wants in non-monogamy?
If you’ve learned to be “low maintenance” and tolerate a lot, you might be m…
3 months, 1 week ago
The Real Glow-Up: Self-Love, Desire, and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, EP. 144
Episode 144
Opening a relationship can feel empowering… and activating.
A lot of people expect ethical non-monogamy or polyamory to feel freeing right away. Inste…
3 months, 2 weeks ago
Saying Yes to Non-Monogamy with Natalie Davis, EP. 143
Episode 143
What if non-monogamy wasn’t something you planned… but something you found your way into?
In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, I’m joined by…
3 months, 3 weeks ago
Jealousy Is Shame in Disguise (And That Changes Everything) Ep. 142
Episode 142
Jealousy isn’t a flaw. It’s not a failure.
And it’s almost never about your partner.
In this episode of Nope! We’re Not Monogamous, Ellecia unpacks a p…
4 months ago
When Honesty Isn’t Enough: The Missing Piece of Emotional Safety in Open Relationships, EP. 141
Episode 141
We talk a lot about honesty in open relationships and non-monogamy.
Tell the truth. Name the jealousy. Share your feelings.
But what happens when you o…
4 months, 1 week ago
Before You Open: The 5 Signs Your Relationship Isn’t Ready Yet, EP. 140
Episode 140
Opening a relationship can feel exciting and urgent, especially once the idea of non-monogamy is on the table. A lot of couples hear advice like “dat…
4 months, 2 weeks ago
How to Talk to a Partner Who Insists on OPP, Forced Triads, or “We Only Date Together” EP. 139
Episode 139
What do you do when your partner says they are open to non monogamy, but only under very specific rules?
Only dating women.
Only forming a triad.
Only d…
4 months, 4 weeks ago
Dating Separately: The Secret to Actually Surviving Polyamory as a Couple, EP. 138
Episode 138
Dating separately is one of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged topics in non-monogamy.
For many couples, the idea of a partner dating some…
5 months ago