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Two Ways Pursuers Can Calm Down and Love Their Withdrawing Partner
Episode 239
Pursuers have beautiful motives to push toward their partners - wanting more connection, more intimacy and more sex. But they often feel rejected and are told they are too much which escalates the cy…
Published on 5 years, 5 months ago
Four Sexy Questions
Episode 238
It's so hard to ask for what I want in bed or how to answer what do you want me to do to you sexually. Why? George says we either want to protect our partner from something hurtful and we're avoiding…
Published on 5 years, 5 months ago
49 Year-Old Virgin and Other Mailbag Questions
Episode 237
Mailbag! - A 49 year-old virgin wonders if it too late for love or if she has lost her mojo. George and Laurie discuss having hard conversations about racism and sex including a listener's feedback. …
Published on 5 years, 5 months ago
You Excite Me -- Seeing Your Partner as Sexy
Episode 236
When we are falling in love, we notice all the positive attractors in our partner. Over time, the inevitable negatives which were there all along become more noticeable. The key to long-term relation…
Published on 5 years, 6 months ago
I'm Too Sexy For My Shirt -- Getting Sexual Confidence
Episode 235
We all resonate with how sexy confidence is in the bedroom. But how do we get it back when we've been repeatedly rejected? Or how do we love ourselves and our imperfect bodies when a critical voice i…
Published on 5 years, 6 months ago
Rooting Out Racism
Episode 234
George and Laurie add their hearts to the conversation about racism. We need to have the conversations that are uncomfortable. If we're marginalized, we have to protest - the rage and anger makes sen…
Published on 5 years, 6 months ago
She Only Wants Sex to Keep Him Happy
Episode 233
Join us for a sample conversation with "Eleanor" who is always anxious about sex, preoccupied with whether or not she is pleasing her husband, but unable to be present for her own experience. She doe…
Published on 5 years, 6 months ago
Hot Questions to Deepen Your Relationship
Episode 232
Conversation is the best foreplay. But to have a deeper, more satisfying relationship you must ask deeper, specific questions. Have you ever wanted to talk to your husband or boyfriend about what he …
Published on 5 years, 7 months ago
Sharing Your Sexual History - Assessment Part 2
Episode 231
In therapy and in our partnerships, sharing our sexual histories takes vulnerability and courage. Have you told your partner about your sexual development? So often we don't even bother to think abou…
Published on 5 years, 7 months ago
How to Assess Your Present Sexual Relationship
Episode 230
We invite you into a thoughtful reflection about what is happening in YOUR sex life. Bring your spirit of curiosity and stay with us in the discovery mode as our “client” played by the brave voluntee…
Published on 5 years, 7 months ago